DaveA
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The best Rose - - the best!!! Hahahaha
What do tattoos cost? I would think that there are better uses for the $$$$$.
While I agree, it is still his money. If that is how he or anyone chooses to spend it? It is their decision.
Does anyone know what they cost? I got one 60 years ago when I was a sailor, don't remember what it cost. It surprised me that there were tattoo parlors in San Diego, but none in Tijuana. San Diego looks very different today from what it was then.
Wrinkled, crepey, sagging nature is an unavoidable characteristic of of elderly skin. Does anyone really think that aged tattoos do that much to enhance or detract from the ravages of age? It's not as if non-tatted folks look 30 years younger.
I don't understand why so many people have their knickers in a twist over tattoos, especially now that they're so commonplace. It reminds me of all the whining that went on when we Boomers were young and our parents' generation wanted the boys in crew cuts and straight-legged pants, the girls in teased hairdos and knee length poodle skirts.
Despite much wringing of hands by our elders we persisted in choosing the freak flags we wanted to fly. This generation has settled on tattoos and today's babies will choose their own generational identity when they come of age. No harm, no foul.
StarSong, you reminded me of the night the Beatles were on the Ed Sullivan show and we were all watching in total fascination. Then I hear my mom and dad talking about how long their hair was (at the top of their ears by the way) and look at all those screaming girls crying! Little did my parents know what was coming! Some guys had the most beautiful long hair by the time I was in high school!
Does anyone know what they cost? I got one 60 years ago when I was a sailor, don't remember what it cost. It surprised me that there were tattoo parlors in San Diego, but none in Tijuana. San Diego looks very different today from what it was then.
Even though I was a little kid at the time I also recall people clutching their pearls over Elvis with his raw sexuality and gyrating hips!
My mother did quite a bit of pearl clutching over Elvis.
Does anyone know what they cost? I got one 60 years ago when I was a sailor, don't remember what it cost. It surprised me that there were tattoo parlors in San Diego, but none in Tijuana. San Diego looks very different today from what it was then.
Wrinkled, crepey, sagging nature is an unavoidable characteristic of of elderly skin. Does anyone really think that aged tattoos do that much to enhance or detract from the ravages of age? It's not as if non-tatted folks look 30 years younger.
I don't understand why so many people have their knickers in a twist over tattoos, especially now that they're so commonplace. It reminds me of all the whining that went on when we Boomers were young and our parents' generation wanted the boys in crew cuts and straight-legged pants, the girls in teased hairdos and knee length poodle skirts.
Despite much wringing of hands by our elders we persisted in choosing the freak flags we wanted to fly. This generation has settled on tattoos and today's babies will choose their own generational identity when they come of age. No harm, no foul.
I really think what you need to understand is that not everyone likes tattoos, whether it's one or an arm/leg full of them..
I think what you need to understand is that not everyone doesn't like them.
While your experience may vary, MY experience is that folks who get tattoos don't go around demanding that everyone like them. They're a personal expression ... just like my turquoise/pink/blue hair, depending on the day, and the tutus I wear for fun and entertainment, or any other form of personal expression, and so they're just THERE. That offends some people, who THEN decide they need to speak out against them. But understand, I'm not speaking out FOR them when I walk around with my tattoos showing. They're just there. Same way as a man's beard, or a woman's colored hair, or either sex's jewelry or clothing choices or the car they drive is just there. The only time I speak out FOR tattoos is when someone speaks out AGAINST them, as though I shouldn't be allowed to make the choice to have them, or that they look ugly or wrong or bad or whatever.
If I spoke out against the way someone cut or styled their hair, when it's THEIR choice to do with as they please, I think that might get their back up, or at the very least cause them to wonder at the audacity of criticizing what is their own personal choice.
I can't speak for every other person who gets inked, but personally, as "someone who looks this way" I don't even THINK about whether or not "some folks dislike these things, but keep that dislike to themselves." They just are. I'm not trying to get anyone to like them, but so many people are trying to drum up dislike for them. I don't get that.
But understand, just as I am completely free to choose to get inked, so is everyone else free to not like the fact that I do that to my body. I don't care. Your opinion of me is none of my business, UNLESS you shove that opinion in my face and tell me how wrong I am. Then you've made it my business, and at that point I'm GOING to defend myself and speak out. Otherwise I don't give a s@$t what you think of me and/or my ink. Or my turquoise hair. Or my tutus. Or my piercings. Or any other damn thing about me.
I find it hard to imagine that many people care enough to remark about someone dressed up as a cowboy - even when there's no horse, barn or ranch anywhere in sight. You seem to be defending your own judgmental attitude by claiming others are equally judgmental with you. Unlikely, and even if it were true, two wrongs don't make a right.
You might want to take a serious look at why you get so revved up about other people's appearance.