The truth about women who Live Alone without a man

StarSong said:
I stopped at a minute and a half, also thinking this applies to men as well as women.

I half-wonder why this guy has stayed stuck in 1950s attitudes, when a woman (or man) living alone was perceived as being a free radical that had better pair up to achieve stability.

No longer do (most) people have these thoughts or judgments about those who happen to live alone. At least not among the people I know.
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there's no guy...it's AI ...but that doesn't make the first 3 minutes any less true for me at least..if not many more women
 
hollydolly said:
there's no guy...it's AI ...but that doesn't make the first 3 minutes any less true for me at least..if not many more women
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How does this play out? Do friends and acquaintances try to set you up on dates, ask if you're dating, or otherwise behave as if living alone is a terrible condition from which you're desperately hoping to be (and needing to be) extricated?
 
@StarSong... I don't know about Holly's situation but, my father seems convinced I need someone in my life to help take care of me. Like I'm supposed to go running out the door looking for a 3rd husband to take care of me when I'm older and need help. Why on earth would I wanna do that? If I can't take care of myself so be it. But I'm not gonna look for a man just because my father thinks I NEED one. Mom did the same thing telling me I needed a man. Why? What's wrong with being alone and being happy?

Some people really believe that a woman isn't complete without a man. I couldn't be happier at the moment. I can live for myself and not hafta spend all my time tryna make someone else happy while I get neglected. Not angry just sayin. ;)
 
The biggest thing for me from this video, is that not only is the video imagery itself A.I. generated, but to me it sounds like the narrative is too. An A.I. with no personality.

Doesn't it go on, and on and on...

I wonder what the person making money from this video thinks?
 
StarSong said:
How does this play out? Do friends and acquaintances try to set you up on dates, ask if you're dating, or otherwise behave as if living alone is a terrible condition from which you're desperately hoping to be (and needing to be) extricated?
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yes.. they do try and set me up.... it's not that I'm anti-men...in fact most of my closest friends are male.... but all my friends female and male wonder how I can cope with no-one here every day. They're not taking into onsideration that I'm not 20...I've lived a life with men..been married twie, and in between had many relationships.. if it had been a Job, then I would be described as highly experienced..... . I don't want it, nor need it any more..
 
Magna-Carta said:
The biggest thing for me from this video, is that not only is the video imagery itself A.I. generated, but to me it sounds like the narrative is too.

I wonder what the person making money from this video thinks?
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Just out of curiosity what do you think the narrative should sound like?
 
hollydolly said:
good Lord... men just cannot accept that many women don't want them living with them... and you will make any excuse for this...tut! tut!
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I except it Dolly, and even appreciate it. Men suck, we smell bad, have ugly habits, hair sprouting all over, tend to be bossy and critical, we don't listen, we don't share, our only value is carrying things upstairs.
 
C50 said:
I except it Dolly, and even appreciate it. Men suck, we smell bad, have ugly habits, hair sprouting all over, tend to be bossy and critical, we don't listen, we don't share, our only value is carrying things upstairs.
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for me it's nothing to do with that...

I just personally at this time in my life prefer to live alone, and not have to answer to anyone else as to why or what I might be doing..or to consider another person before I do anything.. I've done that for all of my life until the last few years... I'm 71 years old...time for ME time... ..
 
hollydolly said:
there's no guy...it's AI ...but that doesn't make the first 3 minutes any less true for me at least..if not many more women
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I was going to comment that it was AI however still a good video. I watched an AI video last night on health and it was very good advice!
Back on subject, I listen to this lady sometimes as I'm an introvert and now an introvert who's alone. I think being that way has helped me transition better. She has several good videos about living alone.

 
hearlady said:
I was going to comment that it was AI however still a good video. I watched an AI video last night on health and it was very good advice!
Back on subject, I listen to this lady sometimes as I'm an introvert and now an introvert who's alone. I think being that way has helped me transition better. She has several good videos about living alone.

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I agree HR... and also I've watched this lady too.... and she makes a lot fo sense... she's an introvert of course, but even for those who are not she still makes sense ...... I stopped watching her after I noticed that she's repeating herself over and over in videos, obviously trying to make as mu money out of them as possible...
 
C50 said:
I except it Dolly, and even appreciate it. Men suck, we smell bad, have ugly habits, hair sprouting all over, tend to be bossy and critical, we don't listen, we don't share, our only value is carrying things upstairs.
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I didn't think she meant that. Put the shoe on the other foot. Or replace "some women" with "some people".
BTW I never took you as the smelly type. 👃
 
hollydolly said:
I agree HR... and also I've watched this lady too.... and she makes a lot fo sense... she's an introvert of course, but even for those who are not she still makes sense ...... I stopped watching her after I noticed that she's repeating herself over and over in videos, obviously trying to make as mu money out of them as possible...
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Yes, it's not a wide ranging topic!
 
hearlady said:
I didn't think she meant that. Put the shoe on the other foot. Or replace "some women" with "some people".
BTW I never took you as the smelly type. 👃
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exactly..but can you see what's happening here ?.. again I'm having to justify to a man why I'm doing what I choose to do.. which is exactly one of the reasons I don't want to live with another man
 
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