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The clock means little to me these day. I remember when every minute I had was filled with doing this that or the other. Alot of it for someone else. After being retired a while all of that went out the window. I do not really care what time it is or what day it is. Of course I have to pay some attention to it in the world of today. It seems strange to me that I still look forward to the weekend. I say strange because in reality every day is like the weekend. I am free to do the things I decide to do and who I do it for everyday of the week. I wonder if looking forward to the weekend is just a habit from all the years of doing my job and having the weekends off. Anyway, I am curious to see if any of the retired folks here with a lot of free time still look forward to the weekend or is it just another day?
 

I look forward to the weekend. Mostly because I can procrastinate for two guilt-free days about talking to people about stuff I have to do when offices are open only M-F. Like making medical appointments. Or ordering home heating oil for my husband's house. Or calling a government agency about something or the other.

And for some reason the weekend seems like a no-stress time. Probably because of the procrastination problem (actually it's probably a self-discipline problem).
 
The clock means little to me these day. I remember when every minute I had was filled with doing this that or the other. Alot of it for someone else. After being retired a while all of that went out the window. I do not really care what time it is or what day it is. Of course I have to pay some attention to it in the world of today. It seems strange to me that I still look forward to the weekend. I say strange because in reality every day is like the weekend. I am free to do the things I decide to do and who I do it for everyday of the week. I wonder if looking forward to the weekend is just a habit from all the years of doing my job and having the weekends off. Anyway, I am curious to see if any of the retired folks here with a lot of free time still look forward to the weekend or is it just another day?
We still look forward to weekends, as it's when we get to see our daughter & son-in-law. They both work from home, so, can't see them during the week.

It is nice to take our country driving/shopping trips during the week, when stores are not crowded.
 

I still look forward to the weekends and I'll tell you why! From Monday to Friday each morning when I "rise and shine" I do floor exercises. After breakfast, I take a nice long walk outside, Monday to Friday. I usually sing and play my guitar on the same 5 day schedule. So, I don't do any of these things on the weekend. If I didn't take a break on the weekends, then everyday would be the same which is not good. I like to think that "variety if the spice of life." We all need a change every now and then; no matter how small. I don't like to get "into a rut."
 
I look forward to the weekend because my son visits and usually does some work around the house and yard for which I'm grateful for. I cook a nice dinner for him also.
When my daughter and family come it is over a weekend because they work or have other commitments during the week.
When we spend the weekend alone it is just like any other day.
When we do go out its nice to go on a weekday. Less crowded as @Pinky said.
 
I think some of it is due to working Monday thru Friday and living for the weekend, Holidays and vacations for so many years. I still look forward to the weekends as that is when my KTLA weekend morning news crew airs Saturday and Sunday! I enjoy watching the antics of Mark Mester, Lynette Romero, Kacey Montoya and Dayna Devon. So, I agree, for whatever reason, conditioning, etc., I too still look forward to the weekends. Don...

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The clock means little to me these day. I remember when every minute I had was filled with doing this that or the other. Alot of it for someone else. After being retired a while all of that went out the window. I do not really care what time it is or what day it is. Of course I have to pay some attention to it in the world of today. It seems strange to me that I still look forward to the weekend. I say strange because in reality every day is like the weekend. I am free to do the things I decide to do and who I do it for everyday of the week. I wonder if looking forward to the weekend is just a habit from all the years of doing my job and having the weekends off. Anyway, I am curious to see if any of the retired folks here with a lot of free time still look forward to the weekend or is it just another day?
When I was working, I looked forward to the weekends, no work. Now that I'm retired, I don't like the weekends. Just more people in the stores, more traffic on the roads, more people in the park, more infomercials and less regular programs on TV, etc.
 
Did you know that in French, weekend is: "La Fin de Semaine," meaning, "The end of the week." French traditionalists loathe using another language in the way that English adopts foreign words and expressions, like "fait accompli." Yet most French people have adopted the weekend, (le weekend) from English because end of the week is not exactly the weekend.

Weekends are always a busy time, we make it so because we are childless, so we don't have adult children and grandchildren, to that end we keep a busy social diary with our group of friends. We have been out this evening, just locally with four others, at a cafe that has an alcohol licence, where we enjoyed a meal, coffee and a cognac. All very convivial. Tomorrow, or as the time is now past midnight, today, we shall be ballroom dancing. No big ornate hotel ballroom, although we love to indulge in such venues, just a local dance school that has a very enjoyable social Saturday night with a big band providing the music.

Sunday lunch will be at a country pub run by a couple we have known and been friends with for many years, even went to their wedding back in August. Sunday afternoon we will be at a village hall in Titchfield, a small community near Portsmouth, where we are looking forward to a Lindy hop afternoon named: "Sugar Push." The sugar push is one of the basic moves of Lindy Hop and all swing dances. The lead and follow stay where they are for 6 counts (if you know anything about dancing.) The sugar push is very stylized, bringing both partners close together.

In the evening, after leaving Titchfield, we shall all gather for a rather splendid meal at an Italian restaurant in The New Forest town of Lyndhurst. It's a most enjoyable time, good food, good friends and very good company. How we have missed our social diary during lockdown.
 
Did you know that in French, weekend is: "La Fin de Semaine," meaning, "The end of the week." French traditionalists loathe using another language in the way that English adopts foreign words and expressions, like "fait accompli." Yet most French people have adopted the weekend, (le weekend) from English because end of the week is not exactly the weekend.

Weekends are always a busy time, we make it so because we are childless, so we don't have adult children and grandchildren, to that end we keep a busy social diary with our group of friends. We have been out this evening, just locally with four others, at a cafe that has an alcohol licence, where we enjoyed a meal, coffee and a cognac. All very convivial. Tomorrow, or as the time is now past midnight, today, we shall be ballroom dancing. No big ornate hotel ballroom, although we love to indulge in such venues, just a local dance school that has a very enjoyable social Saturday night with a big band providing the music.

Sunday lunch will be at a country pub run by a couple we have known and been friends with for many years, even went to their wedding back in August. Sunday afternoon we will be at a village hall in Titchfield, a small community near Portsmouth, where we are looking forward to a Lindy hop afternoon named: "Sugar Push." The sugar push is one of the basic moves of Lindy Hop and all swing dances. The lead and follow stay where they are for 6 counts (if you know anything about dancing.) The sugar push is very stylized, bringing both partners close together.

In the evening, after leaving Titchfield, we shall all gather for a rather splendid meal at an Italian restaurant in The New Forest town of Lyndhurst. It's a most enjoyable time, good food, good friends and very good company. How we have missed our social diary during lockdown.
Gosh, I envy you your social life, lucky you.
 
Gosh, I envy you your social life, lucky you.
Thank you. I have always been reluctant to relate our social calendar because it could easily come across as boastful. Fact is, we have been going to dances, and have learned many a dance, since we were teenagers. Dancing is a very tactile form of recreation based on trust. There's no other pastime where a man can take a lady, that he has never met before, in his arms and whisk her round the ballroom floor.

Being so tactile, part of the niceties if you like, is to introduce yourself when the dance starts, that leads to getting to know your dance partner's husband/partner and their social group. It is such an easy way of creating a network of like minded friends.
 
Did you know that in French, weekend is: "La Fin de Semaine," meaning, "The end of the week." French traditionalists loathe using another language in the way that English adopts foreign words and expressions, like "fait accompli." Yet most French people have adopted the weekend, (le weekend) from English because end of the week is not exactly the weekend.

Weekends are always a busy time, we make it so because we are childless, so we don't have adult children and grandchildren, to that end we keep a busy social diary with our group of friends. We have been out this evening, just locally with four others, at a cafe that has an alcohol licence, where we enjoyed a meal, coffee and a cognac. All very convivial. Tomorrow, or as the time is now past midnight, today, we shall be ballroom dancing. No big ornate hotel ballroom, although we love to indulge in such venues, just a local dance school that has a very enjoyable social Saturday night with a big band providing the music.

Sunday lunch will be at a country pub run by a couple we have known and been friends with for many years, even went to their wedding back in August. Sunday afternoon we will be at a village hall in Titchfield, a small community near Portsmouth, where we are looking forward to a Lindy hop afternoon named: "Sugar Push." The sugar push is one of the basic moves of Lindy Hop and all swing dances. The lead and follow stay where they are for 6 counts (if you know anything about dancing.) The sugar push is very stylized, bringing both partners close together.

In the evening, after leaving Titchfield, we shall all gather for a rather splendid meal at an Italian restaurant in The New Forest town of Lyndhurst. It's a most enjoyable time, good food, good friends and very good company. How we have missed our social diary during lockdown.



fin de semaine is only used in the middle of the week. For the weekend it is bon le week-end :)
 
We're very lucky, we don't have to have the crowd scene at the weekends because we are free to socialise any day of the week. A couple of hours work a day to keep the investments going and it's freedom for the rest of the day.

Today, we watch the weather, hoping to take a couple of friends for a sail this afternoon, stopping at a restaurant on the water's edge further down the coast for an early dinner. Hopefully, some fresh seafood!
 
I've always tried to find something other than what i do during the week.
Sundays i usually going for drives and a nice supper or a nice brunch before starting out.
My Love to be likes to do that as well.....so it will become a weekend tradition.
But.......
Weekends, since i'm by myself, are nothing to write home for.....don't seem to do anything in particular.
Sharing with my guy will be much more enjoyable......will probably make a better effort in doing something together.
Now the days all seem to be a repeat of the day before.
 
Since retiring, every day is much the same. We phone our children on Saturday and Sunday, that's also the cue for winding the lounge clock (8 day Westminster movement). When it comes to shopping, Scotland never had Sunday trading laws and shops only closed to please the church. Now the churches are closed and the shops are open.

When we were working, it was nice ti have two days off, but now we can enjoy things during the week when other folks are working :D
 


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