There are only two kinds of people in the world.

"The more I know about people, the better I love my dog"- Mark Twain, and I wholeheartedly agree.
 

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I can't help it. I'm a movie line and youtube addict.

 

Uncontrolable said:
Sorry, did not think you were. I heard my son in law yelling at his dogs. So I had that on my mind when I was writing.
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My dog is a rescued pitbull/AmStaff cross, who was very poorly treated in her previous life. She has gone from a fearful (understandably so), anxious creature to a happy, smiling, affectionate, sleep on her back with all her feet in the air girl. She is very well behaved and it would break her little heart if I yelled at her in anger. She is the sweetest dog in the world and she's never done anything I would even want to yell at her about.
 
My cat, Fuzzybuddy, passed away recently. I miss him. Every time I open the front door, I expect to see him there. I don't have the ability to adequately care for another pet. Whether it's a cat or a dog, there's nothing like the total love of a pet.
 
fuzzybuddy said:
My cat, Fuzzybuddy, passed away recently. I miss him. Every time I open the front door, I expect to see him there. I don't have the ability to adequately care for another pet. Whether it's a cat or a dog, there's nothing like the total love of a pet.
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Sorry for your loss. It is funny how grief reminds us of our love and causes us to hurt because we miss the feeling of love. Love has a price that we pay at the end. There is good news that you may have trouble hearing now. Grief, the work of grief, usually is a teacher and often makes us stronger in ways we do not understand. I finally learned that grief had made me spiritually stronger. It made me wonder why I had a spirit. It made me understand that spirit is not about this life. I knew then that God must exist. Your cat did not die. It is on the other side waiting for you. Just my opinion.
 
I too have lost a bestest friend after 15 years of his companionship, a male snowshoe siamese.
It has been a long time and I can still see and hear him,and dumb as it sounds I still talk to him. And everytime it makes so very depressed for the rest of the day. I still have a cat but it is not even close...
 
Deucemoi said:
I too have lost a bestest friend after 15 years of his companionship, a male snowshoe siamese.
It has been a long time and I can still see and hear him,and dumb as it sounds I still talk to him. And everytime it makes so very depressed for the rest of the day. I still have a cat but it is not even close...
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There is nothing wrong with talking to a deceased friend if it makes you happy, even if it makes you feel a little grief. But, after a great deal of time goes by and you have hard grief, you may want to see a counselor. It may be that you are hanging onto something you cannot as yet understand. Grief should only last about a year.
 

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