This may be selfish but you gotta know what you gotta know.

[friar]

So my avatar is pretty much me and at my age I don't understand why all my wives left me.
Am I that ugly or are other men just better looking?. I truly don't understand why I find myself alone.

 

[Aunt Bea]

So my avatar is pretty much me and at my age I don't understand why all my wives left me.
Am I that ugly or are other men just better looking?. I truly don't understand why I find myself alone.

I can believe that.

How many wives were there, did they all leave at once, did you conduct exit interviews?

 

[dilettante]

Women are hypergamous by nature, and they are always on the lookout for "a better deal." This is a big part of why they gush over celebrities, foreign royalty, politicians... and it doesn't have to be about looks as much as money and power and potential aggrandizement by association.

If your looks and assets are as high as you seem to think, then your standards for women are probably higher. Women who consider themselves "high value" have even higher standards than you and they're probably far more fickle and prone to hypergamy.

There is a reason why celebrity marriages and associations tend to be more fragile than others.

Of course you could just be poor relationship material. I can't say.

 

[hollydolly]

So my avatar is pretty much me and at my age I don't understand why all my wives left me.
Am I that ugly or are other men just better looking?. I truly don't understand why I find myself alone.

all your wives ??? You sound like Henry the 8th LOL

 

[hollydolly]

So my avatar is pretty much me and at my age I don't understand why all my wives left me.
Am I that ugly or are other men just better looking?. I truly don't understand why I find myself alone.

In all seriousness, you're a good looking man.... but marriages and relationships, I'm surprised you're not aware, don't depend on someone's looks....

 

[MACKTEXAS]

Looks alone may get a foot in the door. But, if it does result in marriage, it will likely follow path of the previous marriages, unless it has more substance than just looks (hers, or yours).

 

[CallMeKate]

Am I that ugly or are other men just better looking?.

Well if you truly believe that it's all about what you look like, you probably just solved your own mystery, eh? Let's try to answer how easy you were to get along with.

 

[Pinky]

Personally, I find attractiveness in a man's personality, more than appearance.

 

[smiley]

its all about equality and genuine respect and then just keeping the marriage and relationship fresh as one can each day and week and month - quite easily really?? give and take 50/50?? and then there is sex !!!!!!!!!! better talk to you privately about that one - don't want mass hysteria breakin out do we??

 

[EmptyCup]

I have always told myself, I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me any longer. Also, all relationships end. Either someone dies or leaves. Once I came to these realizations, I was content.

 

[hollydolly]

Personally, I find attractiveness in a man's personality, more than appearance.

me too..me 3 ... me 53.... lol

 

[friar]

You folks are funny but really, what is it about me that makes women level up instead of stay? It has to be looks or average equipement . financially I have always been average and demeanor pretty much go along to get along. I am at a loss to understand it all. this time though with my wife of 25 years leaving me I am done. she is taking the dog too. so ya. I am in the market for a new dog. lol . a woman not so much

 

[friar]

so are there any chat rooms you could recommend for me to vent?

 

[hollydolly]

I just got divorced 48 hours ago after almost 25 years of marriage... he left me for a h..oar... a 3rd of his age... there's no way I'm blaming my looks....or anything about me..

Instead I'm blaming his inability to be an adult... and face responsibilities

 

[Jules]

@friar, your wife must have given you reasons over the years or at least at the end. Think about those.

 

[Medusa]

You folks are funny but really, what is it about me that makes women level up instead of stay? It has to be looks or average equipement . financially I have always been average and demeanor pretty much go along to get along. I am at a loss to understand it all. this time though with my wife of 25 years leaving me I am done. she is taking the dog too. so ya. I am in the market for a new dog. lol . a woman not so much

so are there any chat rooms you could recommend for me to vent?

You'd get the answers you seek more quickly if you simply asked directly. You are very obviously interested in seeking the company of women. That's why you started this thread asking about your looks. It's why you're now asking about chat rooms.

 

[chic]

If I were looking for a man as a senior, looks would no longer be such a factor. I'm not in high school anymore. Just saying what is true. There's kindness and respect and things that are of mutual interest.

 

[Pepper]

Disgusted by your question. I can see why you have a problem if that's what you think life for an old man like you is about.

 

[hollydolly]

so are there any chat rooms you could recommend for me to vent?

I think you need to go and find a dating site, this isn't one.... ... there's plenty out there..I'm sure someone will, stroke your ego....

 

[Nathan]

So my avatar is pretty much me and at my age I don't understand why all my wives left me.
Am I that ugly or are other men just better looking?. I truly don't understand why I find myself alone.

You didn't do any exit interviews? You really think good looks will do the trick, what about your behavior?

 

[Medusa]

Women are hypergamous by nature, and they are always on the lookout for "a better deal." This is a big part of why they gush over celebrities, foreign royalty, politicians... and it doesn't have to be about looks as much as money and power and potential aggrandizement by association.

You are a misogynistic bigot and I can't believe you are being tolerated here. And worse that some are evening "liking" your hateful posts.

I rarely put people on, "Ignore," but my world is better without you in it.

 

[Pepper]

How old are you old man?

 

[Pepper]

Women outnumber men by so much at senior level. I see any old guy who's breathing surrounded by giggly old women.

 

[hollydolly]

Women outnumber men by so much at senior level. I see any old guy who's breathing surrounded by giggly old women.

..believe me..I'm not one of them....

 

[C50]

Even the most handsome man or beautiful woman can look ugly if they have a terrible personality or other undesirable traits. If you believe looks will carry a relationship you're wrong, and if you think your looks are good enough to overcome all else you're wrong again.