I was trying to just mind my own business, pay my bills, mow my lawn and be drama-free (no romantic relationship). That worked for a few years, but then I got lonely for female companionship. Sort of out of nowhere.
So I started dating again. I am currently in a romantic relationship with a hot older woman (she is 70, I am 68). She looks 60. I look 68.
There is some drama, and some anxiety about our future, but I am way happier than before we started dating.
Yeah, I was all in for the 'please no more drama in my life, just let me chill' option, but it didn't work out for me, lol.