We are all adult here; can we talk about sex without being vulgar? Is that okay?

Excellent. Congrats on the 60 years.
I hope you have many more.
 

You all are lucky ducks. I look at hubby and see how much has changed. It scares me to pieces. I know I will probably be his full caregiver in not too many years...that I might very well outlive him? At the moment sex drive zero...but then I will become more uh hem...woman oriented?
 
An interesting - mostly - frank and very intimate topic. I suppose when we are younger we think that oldies don't enjoy sex. But then as we become oldies, we realise it is not as simple as that. I suppose if our desires turned off when we were 45, that would make things a lot easier for us. But us oldies seem much more complex than those young ones on whom sex is wasted. :D

I think when you get to be one of us oldies and you are still in an active sexual relationship, you should cherish and enjoy it in the knowledge that you are very fortunate.
 
Ok,are there any others of you out there who are still enjoying your husband/wife/partner the same as you always did?? We`ve been together for 50 years now and still......well,you get the picture......

We've been together over 40 years, will celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary in a couple of months. We still enjoy each other very much, no problems here. 50 years is a good long time Mrs. R good for you guys, we're heading there! :)

SB.......40 years

Mrs,. R.....50 years.


Me and the wife.....60 years this December


Its safe to say , it takes me all night to do what I use to do all night. :rolleyes:

1 ditto.gif to the above...53 years here..
 
Speaking from younger sons voice- Ewwww old people getting busy nah? TMI
From me as caregiver and partner-Meh, whatever I have too much to do as it is
From me whatever is left as a human...bring me Levar Burton and Laura Prepon together PARTY!
 
I asked my wife if she thought we would ever be sitting on the beach in those two bathtubs. She said "Not a chance."
 
We've been together a little over 40 years and are in our mid 60's.......naturally we don't go at it like rabbits any more but we still enjoy each others company and the frequency suits both of us.
 
We've been together for 43 years (married 39 this year) and when the mood strikes, we know each well enough to make the moment very pleasurable. I think the big issue for us at this point is "when the mood strikes", as it's far less frequent that either of us would prefer. Something we are working on.
 
On my third (and final) marriage so only been together 16 years. Not as often any more as when I was young, but still strong desire and still good. ;)
 
Awwwwww......

That is so true. I thought my wife was the most beautiful thing on the planet right up to the end. We did it with bright Sun coming through the window in the afternoon with extended periods of foreplay. I don't think we ever had a "Quickie" in our entire lives. We did the whole bit for a couple of months while she had a coil of plastic tubing wrapped around her body and both enjoyed it very much thank you. I often quote "Lionel" from "Keeping up with Appearances". "Its not about a few wrinkles or a couple of extra pounds. its who you are."

You have to find that right person. I congratulate you both on your good fortune. I wish you many more years of happiness ahead.
 
That is so true. I thought my wife was the most beautiful thing on the planet right up to the end. We did it with bright Sun coming through the window in the afternoon with extended periods of foreplay. I don't think we ever had a "Quickie" in our entire lives. We did the whole bit for a couple of months while she had a coil of plastic tubing wrapped around her body and both enjoyed it very much thank you. I often quote "Lionel" from "Keeping up with Appearances". "Its not about a few wrinkles or a couple of extra pounds. its who you are."

You have to find that right person. I congratulate you both on your good fortune. I wish you many more years of happiness ahead.

Aww,that brought tears to my eyes. We are still in our 60`s but I know that will be us in our 70`s and 80`s as well. I just wish we could spend another 50 years together-it`s been lots of fun!
 

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