Weird visit this afternoon

MACKTEXAS said:
That's strange and would make me uncomfortable. I am very direct, and when she started mentioning people and l places you have in common, that's when I would have asked how she knew all this and where is she going with this. If that disturbed her, and she didn't give the right aswer, the visit would end (abruptly).
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correct says I
 

Kadee said:
That most certainly sounds like a weird encounter , wondering who may have given her info about YOU

@dusty

Sorta reading between the lines..what she said to you , was she TRYING to say …maybe you are related …via Your father ….her father on the boat ~ as well as your father …was she indicating that they were the same man …just maybe ?? ..Very odd she knows so much about you and your son …I’d be watching my back very closely ….
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I didn't think of the boat (ship) association.....
 
Well while I was in the kichen she started the knocking again! Fourth session today. I let it go on thinking she'd give up but she didn't. So I got pissed and called the police again as a 911 call. Two officers were here within a few and she was still at the door knocking! So they caught her. One took her to her apt and then returned and they told me they think she's "confused" and probably wants a friend.

I told them I did not know her but she knows all about me and my son...that got their attention. We decided she is stalking me but don't know why. Since they left all has been quiet. I sure hope it stays this way. If not I am not sure what I will do legally but it will be something.
 

I'm not dismissing the replies that tell you to be careful and find out more about her motives, but I had a different spin as I was reading the things she asked and told you. I wonder if this woman thinks that you two are somehow related and was working up to a possible common bond by sharing similarities in life events, as if she wants to ease into that possibility. I believe I would have come right out and asked her then and there why she was asking you the questions she did. But I understand how being so taken aback might have prevented that.
 
OneEyedDiva said:
I'm not dismissing the replies that tell you to be careful and find out more about her motives, but I had a different spin as I was reading the things she asked and told you. I wonder if this woman thinks that you two are somehow related and was working up to a possible common bond by sharing similarities in life events. I believe I would have come right out and asked her then and there why she was asking you the questions she did.
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That did not occur to me at the time. I don't think that's what she was thinking as she asked about my marriage and pets, comparing them. She also knew that my son had been working at art casually and had quit, while she said her son (same age) was a supreme watercolorist in NYC! I don't think we'll find the truth and if she leaves me alone that's good.
 
it all goes from totally deranged to sly and cunning ; or even badly trained investigator??- either the police need to be helping plus additional professional psycho help and in the end a restraining order?- for most ":normal enquirees" they would come right out and explain why they were making enquiries - no drama ; no hidden agendas etc?/
 
dusty said:
I told them I did not know her but she knows all about me and my son...that got their attention. We decided she is stalking me but don't know why. Since they left all has been quiet. I sure hope it stays this way. If not I am not sure what I will do legally but it will be something.
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What do you think they meant by "confused"? It seems to me that if Ms. 72 were all that confused she wouldn't have been able to acquire the info she has about you.
 
dusty said:
That did not occur to me at the time. I don't think that's what she was thinking as she asked about my marriage and pets, comparing them. She also knew that my son had been working at art casually and had quit, while she said her son (same age) was a supreme watercolorist in NYC! I don't think we'll find the truth and if she leaves me alone that's good.
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So, you and Ms. 72 share a birthday, and to add to the coincidences, her son was born the same year as yours and both are interested in art.
 
dusty said:
I'm off to sleep. I am really tired and plan to sleep late tomorrow....Nite, all.
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Start keeping a diary @dusty, note everything down - when she knocks, when you call the police and what they advise, what the building manager says/does, etc so you have a clear record of events. I hope you are getting some sleep. :)
 
Interested to hear what you end up deciding to do about the situation, Dusty. I can in no way accept that she's just "confused" or "wanting a friend." She's in your building. She knows about your dad at Pearl Harbor. Claims to have the same birthday. Knows all about your son. He was an artist... lo and behold, she has an artist son, too. Knows where you lived as a kid... and people you knew. (Putting it in a nutshell in case someone hasn't read the whole thread.)

No, this is crazy. This is a stalker and that's not drama talking... this person has a whole dossier on you! It's creepy. How recently did she move into your building, by the way? If it's been relatively recently, it's even more frightening.
 

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