What am I doing?

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Krasotkina

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Hi and thanks for giving me the opportunity to join. I am lonely 58 years old mother in a bad marriage and without job, highly trained scientist with many degrees and lots of experience that seems to be worthless now, I can not find a job, I lost myself and I am a bas mother to my kids (22 years old twins). What am I going? No friends, poor contact with former friends, colleagues, family members... Trapped in a failed marriage with husband who does not love kids or me, I support him for 20 years now, he is a negative person who does not want to leave or divorce, and I am not aggressive type, so we live this artificial family life for years...
I feel it is too late for life, I lost myself, gained huge amount of weight, many chronic illnesses, I feel pysical and psychological pain almost all the time... What am I doing?
 

What am I doing? I am welcoming you to our forum. Feel free to post how you feel, points of interest and just plain on fun. We are here because, like you, have similar interests and points of view.
 

Krasotkina said:
Hi and thanks for giving me the opportunity to join. I am lonely 58 years old mother in a bad marriage and without job, highly trained scientist with many degrees and lots of experience that seems to be worthless now, I can not find a job, I lost myself and I am a bas mother to my kids (22 years old twins). What am I going? No friends, poor contact with former friends, colleagues, family members... Trapped in a failed marriage with husband who does not love kids or me, I support him for 20 years now, he is a negative person who does not want to leave or divorce, and I am not aggressive type, so we live this artificial family life for years...
I feel it is too late for life, I lost myself, gained huge amount of weight, many chronic illnesses, I feel pysical and psychological pain almost all the time... What am I doing?
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Welcme to the forum.

You're overweight because you're ill/stressed and in a bad marriage.

Unless you address these things ..even one of these things.. and I suggest you start with your wieght..then you're never going to get out of this viscious circle..

if you can get to a point where you are less ill.. that can be achieved somewhat by losing weight.. then if you're less ill, you will be less stress, and far more able to deal with a husband who is not benefitting you...

I wish you luck...
 
hollydolly said:
Welcme to the forum.

You're overweight because you're ill/stressed and in a bad marriage.

Unless you address these things ..even one of these things.. and I suggest you start with your wieght..then you're never going to get out of this viscious circle..

if you can get to a point where you are less ill.. that can be achieved somewhat by losing weight.. then if you're less ill, you will be less stress, and far more able to deal with a husband who is not benefitting you...

I wish you luck...
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Thanks so much, I will try to start healthy diet and a bit of exercise. If I improve my health, refresh my poor brain :) I might be able to resolve this marriage and start something useful... Thanks so much!
 
hollydolly said:
Welcme to the forum.

You're overweight because you're ill/stressed and in a bad marriage.

Unless you address these things ..even one of these things.. and I suggest you start with your wieght..then you're never going to get out of this viscious circle..

if you can get to a point where you are less ill.. that can be achieved somewhat by losing weight.. then if you're less ill, you will be less stress, and far more able to deal with a husband who is not benefitting you...

I wish you luck...
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thanks for your kind support!!!!
 
Welcome to our forum! We will try to help you as much as we can. I know how it is to be married to a negative person and that brings you down. Probably the cause of the weight and health issues. Looking forward to getting to know you here!!

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Krasotkina said:
Hi and thanks for giving me the opportunity to join. I am lonely 58 years old mother in a bad marriage and without job, highly trained scientist with many degrees and lots of experience that seems to be worthless now, I can not find a job, I lost myself and I am a bas mother to my kids (22 years old twins). What am I going? No friends, poor contact with former friends, colleagues, family members... Trapped in a failed marriage with husband who does not love kids or me, I support him for 20 years now, he is a negative person who does not want to leave or divorce, and I am not aggressive type, so we live this artificial family life for years...
I feel it is too late for life, I lost myself, gained huge amount of weight, many chronic illnesses, I feel pysical and psychological pain almost all the time... What am I doing?
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If you're in physical pain you should prioritize yourself until you feel better. That should be #1. Your kids are old enough and your husband doesn't sound worth the trouble so take care of YOU and the other things should fall into place. And welcome to our forum. It's good to have you here.

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