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We had a great lunch at a Tex-Mex restaurant, then we went to see the new Ghostbusters movie. It was us and one other couple that was probably in their 70's in a huge theater. They clapped when the original cast came on the screen. I think I slept for an hour out of the 2 hours it was on. It was great when I was much younger in the 80's, but now not so much.
 

Today I'm wondering what I did wrong. My daughter was yelling at me because I don't want to go to her MIL's for Thanksgiving dinner. We usually share all the holidays together. This year I am having some medical issues and would just prefer to stay home. Plus the fact that some of them haven't gotten the vaccination. They always loved the Wedding soup I would make and I am still sending it to them. His mother never sent leftovers to her kids she would just throw the food away in the garbage except for the soup. I guess I am a B^^^ch.
OMG!!! You did nothing wrong!!!! Shame on your daughter for trying to gilt you into what she wants....instead of caring about your feelings!!!!
 
I thought it was due to hunting season.
The deer are in the rut around my property. I can here them having a party all night long. I also have cams set up in the woods around my house to keep tabs on the wildlife. My son came over to hunt for deer over the weekend. I used to hunt myself but I just cannot kill anything now days and feel right about it. If I was hungry it would probably be different. I do not mind him hunting though. We have way to many deer around here because they do not get hunted much. That is not good for the deer population. Unfortunately they need to be culled from time to time.
 
My early morning walk at 6:45am,temp was 35 went to put letter in mailbx at the corner of my street
Its my usual Mon to call Canopy of Neighbors members to see how they are doing
Later in the morning, my friend, Mary&I are going on our weekly 'road trip'. We'll be stopping at Target, Kohl's{buying xmas gift cards} then to $ store
The rest of my day may go on afternoon walk,read NYT,my book
 
Yesterday was a good day. I got to go to Rite Aid to get my flu and booster shots. All went well. No effects from that at all. To celebrate, I bought 2 king size Payday candy bars, which I gobbled right up. I also bought a back stabilizer. I hope it works because I get severe pain from arthritis in my spine, from doing anything that involves bending. It was so exciting to be in a store again! My daughter and dog were waiting in the car, or I would have looked at everything, just for the fun of it.

Unlike last week, when there were tons of people waiting in line for their shots, no one was there but me. I had to take off my barn coat and a fleece-lined flannel shirt, which I had worn a t-shirt under. I said to the pharmacist that I was sure a lot of people were wearing t-shirts to get their shots, and he said no, hardly anyone did. I wonder if most people had to take off their shirts. I'm not going to do that in front of a pharmacist!

Yesterday I did a bunch of things - mostly in my bedroom. Put winter clothes away, put summer clothes in the second dresser. Mourned the loss of my size 6 clothing. I decided not to wear size 6 again because I am too thin and it makes my face look older. Good thing, because I gained weight as a side effect of the chemo I was on. A little to much for my liking (20 lbs, need to lose 10). I also gathered the reams of paperwork I have. There are at least 5" of cancer-related paperwork, and I am going to toss a lot of it. I don't really foresee a need to have a piece of paper for every time I had chemo, for example. At least I didn't take home paperwork from Rite Aid. I thought that it was like junk mail, since I already know about those vaccinations. The pharmacist must have seen a look on my face that prompted him to ask if I wanted him to throw it away for me!

So today, some kitchen stuff, some bedroom stuff, the usual. I dread going through all that paperwork - some of it is my husband's and most of it is I don't know what. There is also lots of unopened mail that belongs to me. Mostly because I was too sick to deal with it, and partly because my daughter ignores the mail basket, and just leaves it everywhere. I usually discover it by accident. This may have something to do with her ADD.

I see that Thanksgiving is this week, so I'm going to try to talk my daughter into retrieving our turkey from my husband's house. This will give me the chance to see if my stash of bone broth is still within the expiration date, so I can bring it home. My daughter hates going there. She is already disgruntled because her father and my husband (same guy) is joining us for Thanksgiving dinner. No matter how she feels, he is not going to be left alone on Thanksgiving. Her biggest problem is that he does not agree with her social and political views, and it makes her mad. All of our kids intentionally bait him into saying things they don't agree with.
 
@WheatenLover Holy cow about Thanksgiving dinner. I couldn't deal with the stress of being around people who are at odds with each other no matter what the reason.

Our turkey breast(s) are thawing in the fridge. Two because one is never enough. Two is actually a half too much, but I'll just slice and freeze it.

Tomorrow I go to the other half of orientation for the new job, then home to make a caramel apple cheesecake and maybe a cherry pie. Cheesecake for Thanksgiving, cherry pie just because so that we can start loading up on sugary treats for the holidays and not just slam into sugar overload!!!! LOL
 
@WheatenLover Holy cow about Thanksgiving dinner. I couldn't deal with the stress of being around people who are at odds with each other no matter what the reason.

Our turkey breast(s) are thawing in the fridge. Two because one is never enough. Two is actually a half too much, but I'll just slice and freeze it.

Tomorrow I go to the other half of orientation for the new job, then home to make a caramel apple cheesecake and maybe a cherry pie. Cheesecake for Thanksgiving, cherry pie just because so that we can start loading up on sugary treats for the holidays and not just slam into sugar overload!!!! LOL
Yeah, I am going to try to persuade my daughter to be nice to him, which means not baiting him.

I have to clean out the fridge to make room for the turkey. Our fridge is super small, and when I measured to buy a larger one, I discovered there is nowhere to put it. My daughter bought a 13 or 14 lb. turkey because I told her to -- I need the bones to make bone broth, and the meat to make lots of good food in the future.

It is frustrating because I am used to cooking for 6 people, and most of what I cook grows into amounts so large that there is plenty left over to freeze. Now I make everything in much smaller amounts.

Cheesecake is something I love to make, but I hate to eat. I don't like cream cheese. Nearly everyone else seems to love it, though.

I can't wait to hear how your new job is working out.
 
Aww @WheatenLover , you'd think your Daughter and everyone else would just put their issues with their faher aside for this one day for your sake given all you've just been through. :confused:


I'm happy for you that you got into a supermarket for the first time in forever, sad you didn't have the time to look around but then it probably would have exhausted you.. so maybe tiny steps for a little while.. get your thanksgiving dinner over, and see how you go from there..

When is American TG btw, I always forget.. is it this week ?
 
Aww @WheatenLover , you'd think your Daughter and everyone else would just put their issues with their faher aside for this one day for your sake given all you've just been through. :confused:


I'm happy for you that you got into a supermarket for the first time in forever, sad you didn't have the time to look around but then it probably would have exhausted you.. so maybe tiny steps for a little while.. get your thanksgiving dinner over, and see how you go from there..

When is American TG btw, I always forget.. is it this week ?
Yeah, it's on Thursday. I looked it up. Normally, I'd be planning for it a month in advance.

My husband is very proud of our daughter. She thinks it is because it makes him look good. She fails to take into account that he has no friends, so there is no one to look good for, no matter what.

I think I can convince her to be friendly and polite. She's done it before, so she can do it again. She doesn't understand my point of view, that an immediate family member who lives nearby should never be left out of holiday meals. My kids are very harsh judges of their father since they were teenagers, and they haven't given an inch at all. Everything is black and white to them - either a person is "horrible" or they are "great". It is mystifying. When I try to explain his actions in a more "grey" sense, they accuse me of making excuses for him.
 
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I got motivated and have started on the cherry pie🥧 One of DSIL's friends gave him a lot of sweet pitted fresh cherries🍒 early in the summer that DD froze. So...mixed up the filling and it's sitting in the fridge while the cherries thaw. Recipe says an hour, but c'mon...an hour? Anyway just because I was motivated to make the pie doesn't mean that I was motivated to be bothered with my own pie crust. Refrigerated. That's the way to go. For years I thought my mother made perfect pie crust. One day she confessed that she used Already Ready refrigerated pie crust. (If you can't trust your mother, who can you trust?) Refrigerated pie crust on the kitchen counter coming to room temp before I roll it out and fill it.

DD has vanilla bean ice cream in her freezer. I saw it when I got the cherries. Warm cherry pie with vanilla bean ice cream for supper, right? More fruit and dairy in my diet, right? One keeps in mind the desirability of healthy eating:D but really, who'd want broccoli pie?
 
Went for the booster today. Previously we had Pfizer, today was Moderna. Also shopped at two different stores - one for the milk and the other for bread. Strange how two loaves of bread cost $70. 😉 All those other things just seem to fall into my cart.

After all the insanity of folks fighting for food last week, the stores are reasonably stocked. The clerk was telling me about the insanity of people fighting over items. Things like a jar of pickles.

Got out for lunch and will have an afternoon rest today. One load of laundry is done.
 
We had our booster shots a couple of hours ago. So far, our arms are not sore like they were after our 1st and 2nd Pfizer shots.

Took our chances and ate at the food court .. as far from the crowd of diners as we could get. Security guard had to see our details and proof of vaccines.

Brought home 1/2 of our food (Chinese). They give big portions.
 
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