@Jules Thank you for your reply.
Does she think I should be having Christmas and meal here.
I have had them here on occasion…..have always been a disaster.
None of them will eat at a table……not even her or her partner.
Tv tables…..another bust.
The kids don’t eat what is made…..that’s how it is at their home…..she makes a meal…..they don’t want that…..she gives them something else.
The kids are WILD !!!!!!!!
They have my house torn apart in minutes……jumping on furniture…..throwing stuff…..even started food throwing…..they do that at home.
Give them my tablets to keep them busy…..all 3 of them had something to play on…..fight starts…..they want the one the other has.
One did get broken one time here.
They have to wander around with their drinks and whatever they eat……food, drink spilled everywhere.
They scare the hell out of the dogs……I be had to put the dogs in another room…..the kids wouldn’t leave them in peace.
Sent them downstairs to play……doesn’t last long……none off them want to sit and play games.
Send them outside to play if it’s nice……they’re in and out…..in and out.
She never helps with clearing after a meal…..or dishes…..or cleans up after the kids.
They’re never here on time, always really late…..one time I asked them over…..supper was at 6, they left to go shopping an hour away at 4, they got here at 7:30…..no one ate anything…..they ate stuff while shopping.
This is the normal at their house….
She knows that I think it’s better to have occasions at their house, better for the kids…..I have always brought something…..also have always bought the turkey for Christmas, along with the Christmas tree.
Jules….aren’t you sorry you asked.
Do they have other plans…..can’t go anywhere, because they have no vehicle.
Sorry to say……this is another time of me getting used…..hurt…..dumped…….Sorry for saying this.