Lewkat
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- New Jersey, USA
Their undying loyalty to their children no matter what.
Wow that's a long time and much endurance. My mom only lasted 8 years after her diagnosis.I admired my Moms strength and endurance, she fought cancer for 19 years.
Same here! No matter what.Their undying loyalty to their children no matter what.
Much the same as my father. Mother died aged 33, leaving Dad with four children under the age of ten to raise alone. It was tough, but he soldiered on, he even battled with the authorities that tried to put his kids into care homes. He kept us together and never gave up.I admire my late mother during the time that she became a young (41 yrs. old) widow with 3 children still at home; oldest sister was already married. Mom was a strong and very determined woman who only wanted the best for her children.
Her dress was white, the lighting must have made it look light blue.She looks beautiful Sassycakes!
Love her dress, is it light blue? Or is that just the lighting
That is a beautiful family picture.This reminded me of my daughters MIL. Because I am Italian she thought my daughter wouldn't look good at the wedding. She wanted to come and help my daughter pick out her wedding gown. She even sent me a picture of a dress she thought I should wear. The day of the wedding she made her daughter come early to check on how bad my daughter would look. Do you think my daughter looked like a Greaseball? (Her definition of Italians)
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I see, overachievers.My mother was talented, her parents sent her to finishing school(IIRC)where she was taught to play the piano, well enough to have become a concert pianist. She also played the recorder(self taught) and was fluent in English, Spanish, Portuguese, German and Russian. In later years she was a computer programmer, worked at several aerospace companies(Douglas, Lockheed,TRW).
My father majored in physics in collage, worked in the Library of Congress, and was employed by the State Department as a junior diplomat(vice counsel) in a number of U.S. missions(embassies and consulates) abroad: England, Brazil,Cuba,Mexico.
This reminded me of my daughters MIL. Because I am Italian she thought my daughter wouldn't look good at the wedding. She wanted to come and help my daughter pick out her wedding gown. She even sent me a picture of a dress she thought I should wear. The day of the wedding she made her daughter come early to check on how bad my daughter would look. Do you think my daughter looked like a Greaseball? (Her definition of Italians)
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I can relate to a lot of this.Nothing I can think of ....
if you asked me 5 years ago I might have said things like carrying on despite hard circumstances etc
but I discovered most of the story i knew of my parents was fake.
have you ever looked at a photo and then looked again later and saw something you totally missed.
I see just sadness in their wedding album. dads parents never liked her... it shows...... her parents not a smile but a wince as if they knew it was a mistake.
he looks like he just ate bad fish and wanted to throw up ... she had the smile i always knew was FAKE.
The only person happy in photos was my aunt and she was a real life Edith Bunker, clueless to reality
After my mothers death many items became clear. The stories did not add up never did really but she would distract you if you tried to get clarification. the versions always changing ....
No one was happy in that marriage and they should have never had any more kids besides my sister ( the reason they married).
Different times I guess... stay the course even if it was a bad one.
He died at 40 leaving her with 4 kids
She did her best I think, but her mental health ........i believe had some negative effects on me and siblings.
She should have sought help, but was so devoted to keeping up her stories about life it would have been a train wreck.
There are so many issues she had and i think that is why 2 siblings lie constantly and are complete failures
I hope they continue to stop their prejudices ad dislikes. Both my sister's husband and my husband are Irish and we are Italian. My oldest grandson is dating an African American and I love her.Beautiful photo. People are amazing in their prejudices and dislikes. You see that a lot in the Northeast US where Jews, Italians, WASPs and Irish people intermingle. I do find that a lot of the old ways of thinking are disappearing, however.
...and then there was me.I see, overachievers.
Don't understand that one. I am not Italian but spent a lot of time in Italy, very nice looking people. Beautiful women for sure.Greaseball? (Her definition of Italians)