Sadly, I believe it's just the way the software works. It isn't you! As far as I know, we just can't see our own new posts pop-up, but everyone else does. It will eventually fall into the thread. I remember being bothered by this when I started, but I must have gotten used to it.k, so my posts dont show up as ..posted by me...but they show up in the thread.
sorry im having problems using the brd. its large and im not sure where anything goes.
i look for my posts and cant find them w/o going to user content.
i post something go look for it under new posts and dont see it.
idk.