What do you hope to achieve in life, (a question we used to be asked a little more?)

grahamg

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Anyone who has ever attended a job interview, certainly at a large company, may well have been asked "What do you wish to achieve in your life/career".

A stock answer is said to be, "I would like your job", (thus demonstrating the level of your ambition, that one supposes the questioner was interested in very quickly, though they might think your answer a little "trite" or disingenuous, if you used that particular answer).

If you've risen through your job to the level where you get to ask the questions yourself, those needed during a selection process, you may have asked the same question, (I dont think I ever did raise this question btw, though I witnessed others I assisted in the interviews doing so).

Whenever I was asked the question I was pretty much flummoxed and couldn't come up with a decent answer. Maybe I said something like "I wished to do well in my job", but I'm sure I never demonstrated much ambition, if any, (nor very convincingly), and yet I suppose I was being truthful in describing my relatively limited ambitions, (and you could ask, "Well who doesn't wish to do well in their jobs" couldn't you).

If asked today what my ambitions are, or might be, the only truthful answer would be to be able to give is "To do pretty much what I want/like in life, without being told what to do"!

How many married men can say they're so lucky as to have achieved this aim, (and I'm far from it in my own life due to circumstances outside my control)?
 

I feel lucky that I wasn't born in this day and age where everything is highly competitive.
Some 40 years ago, I wasn't ambitious at all. I've never been the type to say all the right things in an interview. I was told I could have been given a promotion a long time ago, had I been more assertive. I didn't know how to do it without being seen as a smartass. I'd rather let my performance speak instead of words.

I didn't achieve all I wanted to but there came a time when I had to remind myself that it was time to let it go.
 
How many married men can say they're so lucky as to have achieved this aim, (and I'm far from it in my own life due to circumstances outside my control)?
You're totally innocent? Disingenuous, I'd say. Really great thread until that sentence, IMO. Doesn't even fit with the theme, it seems like an afterthought? Peace.
 

You're totally innocent? Disingenuous, I'd say. Really great thread until that sentence, IMO. Doesn't even fit with the theme, it seems like an afterthought? Peace.
You're reading far too much into my intended joke, (though it would be silly to suggest there are not things outside one's control - see thread on "Just Managing" re-control freaks etc.) ;):cautious::sneaky::giggle:!
 
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I believe I have finally achieved what I wanted in my life. Like you, to be able to do what I want to do when I want to. Only thing it took my whole life to figure out what that was. Yet, I did know deep down in myself what that was. Just didn't recognize it. Always yearned for something else rather than what I had and now I feel contented. Yes, I would have liked a great career when I was younger too, but I put that aside now. Every morning, I wake up looking forward to my day.

(I don't know if I actually addressed your question or not)
 
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I think that the UK has it's own brand of humour that other people sometimes find hard to understand.

Having had some interviews where I was asked, "how do we know that if we invest in training you for this job, you won't then up and leave?"
I tended to reply along the lines of... well, what incentives can you offer me? career progression, salary increase etc..

As it happened, I never got as far as I might have liked, but ended up in a "cosy" position with a reasonable salary, a car, international travel and a few other perks. Now, when it comes to us married men, as they say, "Many a true word was spoken in jest".
 
Why not make it actually funny?
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Good idea, (be careful what you wish for though!), Groucho Marx on marriage, quotes:
"Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution?"

Marriage is the chief cause of divorce."

“The husband who wants a happy marriage should learn to keep his mouth shut and his wallet/checkbook open".

“I was married by a judge. I should have asked for a jury.”

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I believe I have finally achieved what I wanted in my life. Like you, to be able to do what I want to do when I want to. Only thing it took my whole life to figure out what that was. Yet, I did know deep down in myself what that was. Just didn't recognize it. Always yearned for something else rather than what I had and now I feel contented. Yes, I would have liked a great career when I was younger too, but I put that aside now. Every morning, I wake up looking forward to my day.
(I don't know if I actually addressed your question or not)
I think you've well and truly answered it! :unsure::giggle:
 
Right now at a whisker away from age 81, getting out of bed in the morning is an achievement. During my years working at different jobs I managed to rise above others that were hired before me. The last job I went from blue collar to management & was successful enough salary wise to be able to retire at age 54 & never look back.
 
As a retired octogenarian still fit with good health, within limitations of my peon personal situation, enjoy life that I've chosen while being a good citizen, helping others, with an ultimate life end goal of eternal life. I do know how to enjoy myself and be excited waking up each day without being rich. Never one pursuing materials or wealth, the US government is paying me enough SS each month so that being frugal I've not dipped into any savings over 5 years. The one goal left is to find the right woman to share my enjoyable life with over the remaining years.
 
I feel lucky that I wasn't born in this day and age where everything is highly competitive.
Some 40 years ago, I wasn't ambitious at all. I've never been the type to say all the right things in an interview. I was told I could have been given a promotion a long time ago, had I been more assertive. I didn't know how to do it without being seen as a smartass. I'd rather let my performance speak instead of words.

I didn't achieve all I wanted to but there came a time when I had to remind myself that it was time to let it go.
That was me. So much of what you're supposed to say in interviews seemed like bragging to me, I just couldn't do it.
 

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