What does your future self look like?

Ladybj

Live, Laugh and Love
My future self is Wiser, Self-Full, learned to say NO and mean it and stop trying to please every one which is basically, IMPOSSIBLE and not taking a lot of BS. So my future self is sooo FREE...LESS STRESS and less muscle tension. She is at a great place in her life and others respect her space and time, She wish she would have learned these lessons earlier in life but she is at an age where they matter the most. She is with a partner that respect and love her as she love and respect him. THE REST OF HER LIFE IS THE BEST OF HER LIFE.
 

That "saying 'No'" thing is very important.

It reclaims control while making interactions with others easier, because you lose the fear of not taking care of yourself. It's fear that makes our worlds shrink.

The loss of stress naturally follows.

Lessons are learned when they need to be learned. The paths that got us there are not wasted time.
 
Suggest writing down what you imagine your "perfect day" would be like in two years. Detail it as much as you want, fold it up and seal it in an envelope and put it somewhere to reclaim in 2 years. Remind your self once in a while of your "perfect day" - look forward to it.

This is an exercise I've done and its amazing what you will discover when you open it up.
 

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