What is the surest way to a woman's heart ??

[wisenior]

All you can do is be yourself.
If they don't like you for what you are,
They're not going to like you for what you're not.

 

[KSav]

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Sorry, but I think yes, yes, yes, because, well, if I were to tell her that she was ugly, I might get such a slap that my ears would be ringing for a fortnight.

I prefer a man who is honest. If someone fed me a bunch of BS-sounding, over-the-top compliments, I'd be outta there in a flash.

This is a very personal topic; there's no one right answer that fits everyone.

 

[papa tiger]

Most likely it's a man who understands that She's by birth his "Contradiction personality" ( on a daily Basis.)
The Young Man wants sons to help with the huge work / chores. She wants daughters to help her too.

 

[squatting dog]

May not work for everyone, but, darn sure works for me. I'm sensing a common theme here.

 

[Gary O']

I've heard that if a man can make a woman laugh, he's the one. Honestly, I've laughed, at the beginning, at just about everything that each man in my life has said or did. None of those relationships stood the test of time.

Hardly ever does
It's a pretty good ice breaker, however

Once the humor gets old, and predicable, the ice thickens

 

[smiley]

strange form of magnetism??? - men often seem to wanna do a whole load of things different to women - mens stuff??? and women visa versa - sex does seem to be a common denominator and money perhaps?? there once was a book "Men are from Mars and Women from Venus - spelt it all out really imo?

 

[Ruthanne]

Buy me a new car! Just kidding! Politeness, compassion, love of animals, caring ness.

 

[papa tiger]

Add The Chick to your life, keep the place sparce so you got lots of room, no flat place for dust to settle.
You know your Vacuum cleaners limits that way. Don't count anything out, just don't fall for most of it.
Sooner or later you get to start over again, no big loss. It's how you member stuff and learn. Memory's "best teacher"
They always going to be your Contradictory Mind.
There is nothing meant to be derogatory there. The Boyfriend is exactly the same. No benches, tool boxes, Firearms /
Sterio and Guitars / Drum crap for yours. Keep it sparce, no large Closet of clothes either. Get out of my Place ! Sure !

 

[Oldeagle66]

For me....... nothing. They are no more as special as anyone else. I don't share anything with them or give them any money or attention. I guess that leaves me out.

 

[DailyArtsyCrafter]

It's a pretty good ice breaker, however

Yes, and a fleeting moment of enjoyment.

 

[DailyArtsyCrafter]

strange form of magnetism??? - men often seem to wanna do a whole load of things different to women - mens stuff??? and women visa versa - sex does seem to be a common denominator and money perhaps?? there once was a book "Men are from Mars and Women from Venus - spelt it all out really imo?

That book shared several good points that can help men and women understand a little more how each thinks.

 

[Pepper]

Smart, funny, loyal and generous. Those WERE the ways to my heart, which if it weren't for son/grandson wouldn't have heart left at all. Well, I do love the human race, warts and all.

 

[gruntlabor]

Ask her for advice.

 

[CooCooforCoCoPuffs]

Borrowed from @Katherine on Humor thread....

 

[dilettante]

Ask her for advice.

I thought you said "an invoice."

 

[Marcy Sheiner]

Massages!

 

[David777]

Not too far from here.