Interesting -- but does this also apply when you're dealing with youth, or with people you care about? There are times when I feel I truly have to say something, regardless of how uncomfortable the consequences. For example, in my previous work, I had to speak to people very frankly about their drug and alcohol addictions, or about untreated mental health issues. It was hard!! And people can be extremely rude when you confront them about something so personal. Nonetheless, when I felt it was appropriate, I spoke what I perceived to be the truth. On occasion, hearing something honest about oneself made an enormous difference in a person's life. I'm not convinced that keeping silent would have been kind or wise.
What is Wisdom?
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Interesting -- but does this also apply when you're dealing with youth, or with people you care about? There are times when I feel I truly have to say something, regardless of how uncomfortable the consequences. For example, in my previous work, I had to speak to people very frankly about their drug and alcohol addictions, or about untreated mental health issues. It was hard!! And people can be extremely rude when you confront them about something so personal. Nonetheless, when I felt it was appropriate, I spoke what I perceived to be the truth. On occasion, hearing something honest about oneself made an enormous difference in a person's life. I'm not convinced that keeping silent would have been kind or wise.
I wonder if that would be considered "wise" or if it would be more appropriate to call it "prudent?" Prudence is certainly a part of wisdom. That said, if you check for paper before sitting on the toilet, but then learn that the toilet seat is up, you're going to feel like a fool.
To my mind, the wise are those who don't take their SmartPhones or magazines into the loo. Rather, the wise appreciate the call of nature as an opportunity to sit in silence and reflect.
Leonie
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Over my lifetime I have probably met a number of people whom I considered wise, but as others have said, it is subjective. What I consider wise, others may not.
The action part of the question made me think of that old quote, attributed to the journalist Miles Kington ...
Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad.
I think he might have been wise.
The action part of the question made me think of that old quote, attributed to the journalist Miles Kington ...
Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad.
I think he might have been wise.
How to recognize someone who is wise
That's an excellent question. I believe that those who are wise are generally quieter than others. They not only listen, but they also reflect on what they have heard. By listening to others, they come to appreciate the variety of human experiences. When reflecting, they consider their own beliefs and experiences, running them through the filter of other people's stories.
I believe that the wise are those who appreciate solitude. That doesn't mean they're shy. They might be naturally extroverted. Nonetheless, they're able to control their impulse to be constantly active and in a group. The wise are likely those who exhibit a high degree of humility. Even those who are accomplished in a skill or profession will be outward and other-focused. They aren't braggarts. Moreover, they make those around them feel inspired and empowered.
But these are just my opinions. Any other ideas?
That's an excellent question. I believe that those who are wise are generally quieter than others. They not only listen, but they also reflect on what they have heard. By listening to others, they come to appreciate the variety of human experiences. When reflecting, they consider their own beliefs and experiences, running them through the filter of other people's stories.
I believe that the wise are those who appreciate solitude. That doesn't mean they're shy. They might be naturally extroverted. Nonetheless, they're able to control their impulse to be constantly active and in a group. The wise are likely those who exhibit a high degree of humility. Even those who are accomplished in a skill or profession will be outward and other-focused. They aren't braggarts. Moreover, they make those around them feel inspired and empowered.
But these are just my opinions. Any other ideas?
Shalimar
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I believe the willingness to enjoy life’s simple pleasures, to embrace love, laughter, spontaneity, and playfulness, regardless of one’s age is often the mark of a wise person.