What makes a woman sexy to you? What makes a man sexy to you?

[jujube]

I don't know, Jube, that's a pretty high bar.

Unless you're going for a much younger man.

Who's been toilet-trained.

Yeah, I know. I'm thinking of dropping either the teeth requirement or the toilet paper roll ability. The "no snoring" is my line that.will.not.be.crossed, though.

 

[Bella]

Confident, kind, thoughtful, smart, trustworthy, well-spoken, masculine, handy, clean, well-groomed, a sense of humor, and the way he looks at me. They do exist. I know because I was married to a man like I just described.

 

[Chet]

Petite, nice figure, symmetrical face, nicely groomed, soft spoken and just sends out that vibe.

 

[Jean-Paul]

Loyal, Optimistic, worldly, French speaking, veggie, great cook, conservative...
not religious, interested in tech and history....

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[fatboy]

just being a nice person

 

[Muskrat]

Smart and funny goes a long way these days. I want to talk over coffee.

 

[Alligatorob]

For me the most important is a lady who likes me, and shows it. I have to like her as well of course.

Second level is I like women who are funny, easy to talk to, have interesting things to say, and enjoy talking with me.

Third level are things like being in an age appropriate range (not too picky on that one) and having at least a few shared interests. However I also like someone with interests and thoughts different from my own who likes to talk about them.

After that I do of course notice the regular female features, but if I get past the first hurdles looks are not so important. I find I like to look at people I like...

toilet-trained

That might be important too.

 

[Murrmurr]

For me the most important is a lady who likes me, and shows it. I have to like her as well of course.

Second level is I like women who are funny, easy to talk to, have interesting things to say, and enjoy talking with me.

Third level are things like being in an age appropriate range (not too picky on that one) and having at least a few shared interests. However I also like someone with interests and thoughts different from my own who likes to talk about them.

After that I do of course notice the regular female features, but if I get past the first hurdles looks are not so important. I find I like to look at people I like...

That might be important too.

A prominent nose, an over-bite, a higher than average forehead...those all look perfectly proportioned on the face of someone you really enjoy being around.

 

[Magna-Carta]

A black man with a British accent.

I might be able to provide one of the criteria you mention. Back in the year 2000, when me & my girlfriend left the UK for a while & went to Grosse Pointe, MI, to a home she had there, she invited a friend around. I’d never seen this friend of her’s before.

I had not long come out of the shower, and I went into the room where they were. (I was dressed I hasten to add). I introduced myself to her & she shouted, “OH MY GOD, SAY SOMETHING ELSE!” I find it a bit difficult speaking on demand to someone I’ve never met before. I smiled and said to her, “What do you want me to say?”. She said, “ANYTHING!”

The accent thing works the other way around too.

Later in the evening when she was leaving, she was at the front door with my gf. I heard her whisper, “does he sound like that in bed?”. My gf very quickly turned her around & pushed her out of the door and into the cold winter night. There was 12 inches of snow on the ground.

 

[Duster6]

What makes a man sexy to me? I haven’t a clue anymore.


Respect of me would be a great start.