There's huge differences in what matters to you ...or to me....
Someone in an inner city tenement.. will, have massively different concerns, than someone with a a 100 acre Cattle ranch in Idaho....
Someone with 10 kids living in a 3 bed apartment with horrendous neighbours in a  sink estate  will have hugely different concerns to the Millionaire young executive living in a penthouse apartment in Dubai..
Someone with no family, and little money who has a terminal disease, will have different concerns to the person facing the disease who has the support and love of an extended family...
So on the face of it.. even if  you're facing a similar outlook the circumstances make the concerns very different