When do you feel the most like a man or a woman?

I feel most like a man when I'm behind the wheel of my car. I've always been a car nut since I was a kid and love driving fast. My partner calls me Speed Racer. He drives to work 5 days a week and I'm retired, but when we're going somewhere and I say I will drive he always gives a hesitant "okay".

The second occasion would be when I'm dressed up in a nice suit and tie, but I rarely wear them anymore.
 
Bella said:
When I'm all gussied up. girl_dance.gif

What about you @bobcat? 🤔
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You know, when I posted it, I was thinking more along the lines of when I am out in the forest cutting up a big tree and working up a sweat, and then when it's done, I feel like taking my t-shirt off and giving a big Tarzan yell (Ha ha), but after I thought about it, I knew that wasn't the most special moment.

After thinking about it, I would have to say that it's something like when a man is walking with someone he deeply cares about, and she locks arms with him, looks up at him with a smile, and without saying a word, just lays her head on his shoulder, it is in that moment that he gets a feeling that washes over him, that she has entrusted her heart to him. There is nowhere else she would rather be, and you're not just any man, but you are her man. It is a feeling like no other that a man can experience.

I realize that I can't speak for all men, so it's personal. But IMO, as strange as it may seem, the most meaningful moment of being a man has to come from a woman, and would I trade it for cutting up logs, not on your life. They are merely an accomplishment. The other is discovering the true joy of being a man.
 
I loved trundling home with a pickup full of fire wood. Wood gathering for the winter was one of my favorite chores. I did it by myself while my wife was at home doing her things, so there was kind of a manly satisfaction there, but in the end, it was just something that needed to be done that was enjoyable.
 
I feel more like a man, when I'm in a group of guys. When I was a psych. nurse, we used to have all male, and all female wards. On the fem. wards, it was noisy, loud, everyone talking, lots of interaction, yelling, never ending fights, radios on. On the male ward, it was quiet, nobody was talking, no verbal interaction, no radios, no yelling. If there was a rare squabble, there was a punch thrown, and it was over.
The presence of other men, does change behavior in men.
 
911 said:
Is this a trick question? I am a man and so of course, I always feel like a man. I have never felt like a woman, a duck, a dog, or anything else. Well, one time I did feel like ghost, but I was 11 years old and I was dressed up for trick or treating.
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Sorry, that wasn't the question. The question was when do you Most feel like a man or a woman. Specific instances.
 
Never thought about it in that relative way, although in this era of constant gender discussions in media can understand some might. In any case, understand how some insecure men might feel a need to project manliness publicly among others.

The above noted, it is true we humans can strongly feel our genders during mating activities. But personally as someone fully confident where I exist on that realm, such doesn't cause thinking about relative maleness.
 
I feel most like a woman when:
I hug my children and grandchildren. The love that courses through me can sometimes overwhelm me to tears.​
I'm not aware my S/O is looking at me and when I catch his gaze, I blush.​
And other times that are much too personal to post.​
 

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