Exactly what is the difference between "decent people" and " those with lower standards"? Be specific, please.
I still find it hard to understand why there's is that self imposed 4 million limit in births. How does it happen?
it may be decreased fertility rates as well ..... health issues in young seem worse then when i was younger... several young women i know too obese and pregnancy is dangerous if possible at all.
many find out they can not have babies at least the old fashioned way........ lots using IVF ect .... very expensive to do that route.
I would say it is easy to see if you have insight to younger family type groups ... if you have a diverse group you will SEE the people with lower standards
i am in close touch with daughter and her friends.... for example
she and some friends who if building a future who plan out and may have at most 2 kids.... having kids with a sense of how much time and money needed to really provide for needs and wants .... same thing i did .... WE decided if we had anymore it would greatly limit how many extras or vacations or activities we could afford
My SILs family is a prime example of the other half.
SIL's 3 siblings ( unemployed or working in dead end type jobs ) have had 11 kids between them ............most with several different dads or even moms ...............they have no plan in their 30s living with parents or family .......often on assistance.
3/4 of these kids either born with health or mental issues .......or have developed them one ...........young girl about 6th grade so obese she wears size 16 clothes......No stability ... eat fast food and junk and as daughter said she HOPES they will be sterile to stop the cycle of poverty and bad choices.
SIL told me of losing his childhood treasures because his parents would wake kids up middle of night grab only the basics and run from being evicted.. several times they had 5 kids....... correlation???
3 out of 4 siblings repeating the pattern... with their own kids
my grandson takes karate classes and asked his dad if he took classes or did activities and SIL told them the
truth ... they only could go to the one or 2 free try it classes as his parents never could afford all the items my daughters family enjoys.
my SIL is a good dad and excellent provider which is absolutely unheard of in his family ..... my daughters family has almost no contact because his family all have their hands out....