PeppermintPatty
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Yes it was!I thought she was quite clear too. I also thought my response was pretty clear.
Yes it was!I thought she was quite clear too. I also thought my response was pretty clear.
When I reached puberty I started being very turned on by the beauty of a female. No matter what it was, it was attractive and I approached the female with the intent to make out. This energy is very exciting, and causes some very powerful chemicals to be released. I also used pornography and pictures of women that turned me on to masturbate. When I was a teen it was at least once a day.Unfortunately some men take sexy clothing as an invitation to come on to them or attack them.
I think most mature woman know how dressing sexy makes a man feel but I couldn’t say the same about girls. When I was really young ( about 13 ) I had a a friend who really enjoyed getting male attraction. She’d talk me into wearing short shorts and hanging out sitting across from a faculty. We would love the cat calls and whistling we got. At that age, I didn’t really know what dangers that it would cause. When I got older I did know but didn’t care. It made my dad very angry and it was a way to get back at him. We worked at the same place but I could dress how I wanted. It had its own consequences.When I reached puberty I started being very turned on by the beauty of a female. No matter what it was, it was attractive and I approached the female with the intent to make out. This energy is very exciting, and causes some very powerful chemicals to be released. I also used pornography and pictures of women that turned me on to masturbate. When I was a teen it was at least once a day.
I think a female knows for the most part, what she is doing when she dresses and put's on her jewelry and makeup. When she is out in public who knows what kind of male will see her. If she is wanting to draw attention, she will. If she wants to be casual, she will. If she wants to be modest, she will. To blame either of the binary reproductive creatures for a misconduct gets quite complicated. We do have laws that protect us from this kind of stuff. But, like every law, it is there because someone will break it.
For me it is always fascinating to watch the varieties in nature when it comes to the "mating" rituals. We are animals, and share a lot of instinctual motivations that are similar. In the human world, the rituals take such myriad forms and behaviors. We are all fascinated by this in some ways. Movies, video's, real life people watching, etc. It is like all phenomena in that it has it's "negative" melodrama all the way to the "positive" melodrama. Shakespeare was a Master at telling very captivating stories about about the vagaries and virtues of human relationships.I think most mature woman know how dressing sexy makes a man feel but I couldn’t say the same about girls. When I was really young ( about 13 ) I had a a friend who really enjoyed getting male attraction. She’d talk me into wearing short shorts and hanging out sitting across from a faculty. We would love the cat calls and whistling we got. At that age, I didn’t really know what dangers that it would cause. When I got older I did know but didn’t care. It made my dad very angry and it was a way to get back at him. We worked at the same place but I could dress how I wanted. It had its own consequences.
I remember you posting a photo of your mum, She is beautiful....My mother was one of those women. She was absolutely beautiful when she was younger and married my father when he was 35 and she was 25. When we went out to dinner people would ask if she was his daughter. He was successful and told her she would never need to work. So, her entire identity was wrapped up in being his "beautiful wife" and my mother.
When she got older and I left home, she went into a deep depression because I'm sure she felt like she was failing in her "role". When the three of us would go to dinner she would insist people were staring at her. It was a horrible thing to witness. But then, she was a product of the "old days" when women were to stay home and keep house and men were the breadwinners.
When my father passed away, she was only 68 and I encouraged her to get out and go on errands with me. She hadn't left the house in 4 years. She soon became social and forgot her previous "purpose" in life. She blossomed into someone who enjoyed life and no longer worried about her looks. Yes, we are a looks-obsessed society, and it is truly unfortunate.
To blame either of the binary reproductive creatures for a misconduct gets quite complicated...
We have laws that protect victims from that extreme kind of behavior.I dont think it is complicated at all - whoever attacks anyone else is to blame - not the victim for wearing whatever they were wearing
Yes it isyes of course we do
that doesn't change what you said before about it being complicated who to blame - no, it isnt complicated at all.