Women who constantly seek to be desirable to men

As a man I can say that I have seen many women that were dressed showing way too much skin!

In my 70+ years I have yet to approach or even talk to one of these women. Let alone "attack" or even "touch" them. Any man that would touch or attack a slightly clad women they do not already have a relationship with is a criminal and would be dealt with appropriately. Does it happen, yes...but it is not common! The way some of you write this, it sounds like you believe if you go out scantily dressed you will surely be attacked by some out of control man! REALLY? Probably not, although I acknowledge that it has happened and the crime of rape is real, but again, women wearing sexy close are not commonly attacked.....

By the way, many women wear close to attract men and women's attention.... this is not a bad thing, to a point!
 
PeppermintPatty said:
Unfortunately some men take sexy clothing as an invitation to come on to them or attack them.
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When I reached puberty I started being very turned on by the beauty of a female. No matter what it was, it was attractive and I approached the female with the intent to make out. This energy is very exciting, and causes some very powerful chemicals to be released. I also used pornography and pictures of women that turned me on to masturbate. When I was a teen it was at least once a day.

I think a female knows for the most part, what she is doing when she dresses and put's on her jewelry and makeup. When she is out in public who knows what kind of male will see her. If she is wanting to draw attention, she will. If she wants to be casual, she will. If she wants to be modest, she will. To blame either of the binary reproductive creatures for a misconduct gets quite complicated. We do have laws that protect us from this kind of stuff. But, like every law, it is there because someone will break it.
 

Wow!!
I just have to step in here...
So many male opinions on how we women dress.
I could say more on that but I won't

Reading this thread has made me realize just how little time I spent on my self in my younger days.
No matter the occasion I dressed and used makeup for my own satisfaction not for the man or the company I was about to meet.
I never wore clothes or jewellery to 'draw attention' to men or anybody else for that matter.
I had to like and be happy with what I saw in the mirror.

Must have worked since I got many compliments in my younger days and had no problem attracting the male species.
 
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Paco Dennis said:
When I reached puberty I started being very turned on by the beauty of a female. No matter what it was, it was attractive and I approached the female with the intent to make out. This energy is very exciting, and causes some very powerful chemicals to be released. I also used pornography and pictures of women that turned me on to masturbate. When I was a teen it was at least once a day.

I think a female knows for the most part, what she is doing when she dresses and put's on her jewelry and makeup. When she is out in public who knows what kind of male will see her. If she is wanting to draw attention, she will. If she wants to be casual, she will. If she wants to be modest, she will. To blame either of the binary reproductive creatures for a misconduct gets quite complicated. We do have laws that protect us from this kind of stuff. But, like every law, it is there because someone will break it.
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I think most mature woman know how dressing sexy makes a man feel but I couldn’t say the same about girls. When I was really young ( about 13 ) I had a a friend who really enjoyed getting male attraction. She’d talk me into wearing short shorts and hanging out sitting across from a faculty. We would love the cat calls and whistling we got. At that age, I didn’t really know what dangers that it would cause. When I got older I did know but didn’t care. It made my dad very angry and it was a way to get back at him. We worked at the same place but I could dress how I wanted. It had its own consequences.
 
PeppermintPatty said:
I think most mature woman know how dressing sexy makes a man feel but I couldn’t say the same about girls. When I was really young ( about 13 ) I had a a friend who really enjoyed getting male attraction. She’d talk me into wearing short shorts and hanging out sitting across from a faculty. We would love the cat calls and whistling we got. At that age, I didn’t really know what dangers that it would cause. When I got older I did know but didn’t care. It made my dad very angry and it was a way to get back at him. We worked at the same place but I could dress how I wanted. It had its own consequences.
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For me it is always fascinating to watch the varieties in nature when it comes to the "mating" rituals. We are animals, and share a lot of instinctual motivations that are similar. In the human world, the rituals take such myriad forms and behaviors. We are all fascinated by this in some ways. Movies, video's, real life people watching, etc. It is like all phenomena in that it has it's "negative" melodrama all the way to the "positive" melodrama. Shakespeare was a Master at telling very captivating stories about about the vagaries and virtues of human relationships.
 
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:Lord this a mess!! If you are looking for a man some women might go to an extreme to attract one. If you are not looking for a man, you are free to be your natural self. The only beauty you need is a smile, be able to hold a decent conversation. There are plenty of men that are just out there looking for a good person. They have come to the age that physical appearance does not rule the world. At our age, men that age well are few and far, as are women.

Our physical selfs is not important, IMO. If you are looking for a mate, the truth of the person can only be known in taking your time to get to know the person, their values, family and friends. If both are not willing to take the time to know each other, you are looking at disaster.

That said, I am not looking for anyone to complete me. I was completed a long time ago. I had a husband that was my everything but God and cancer took him away. There can be no replacement. @Rose65, if you are happy in your life don't worry about what other women do. Just be you!!
 
Forgot to mention, the other day, I put on makeup the first time in five years. I had a very important lunch date with two men. I put on a very nice outfit, even put on earrings. We went to have seafood, it was so good!! We laughed, talked and ate until we thought we would bust. It was my birthday lunch!! They came to pick me up and little grandson had a bouquet of flowers and a card. That was the best male attention I will ever have!!
 
My mother was one of those women. She was absolutely beautiful when she was younger and married my father when he was 35 and she was 25. When we went out to dinner people would ask if she was his daughter. He was successful and told her she would never need to work. So, her entire identity was wrapped up in being his "beautiful wife" and my mother.

When she got older and I left home, she went into a deep depression because I'm sure she felt like she was failing in her "role". When the three of us would go to dinner she would insist people were staring at her. It was a horrible thing to witness. But then, she was a product of the "old days" when women were to stay home and keep house and men were the breadwinners.

When my father passed away, she was only 68 and I encouraged her to get out and go on errands with me. She hadn't left the house in 4 years. She soon became social and forgot her previous "purpose" in life. She blossomed into someone who enjoyed life and no longer worried about her looks. Yes, we are a looks-obsessed society, and it is truly unfortunate.
 
seadoug said:
My mother was one of those women. She was absolutely beautiful when she was younger and married my father when he was 35 and she was 25. When we went out to dinner people would ask if she was his daughter. He was successful and told her she would never need to work. So, her entire identity was wrapped up in being his "beautiful wife" and my mother.

When she got older and I left home, she went into a deep depression because I'm sure she felt like she was failing in her "role". When the three of us would go to dinner she would insist people were staring at her. It was a horrible thing to witness. But then, she was a product of the "old days" when women were to stay home and keep house and men were the breadwinners.

When my father passed away, she was only 68 and I encouraged her to get out and go on errands with me. She hadn't left the house in 4 years. She soon became social and forgot her previous "purpose" in life. She blossomed into someone who enjoyed life and no longer worried about her looks. Yes, we are a looks-obsessed society, and it is truly unfortunate.
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I remember you posting a photo of your mum, She is beautiful....
 
I know they are to blame. THEY did the act. They hopefully will be punished. That part is not complicated. Sorry for defending a stupid statement.
 


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