RadishRose
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Someday Diva, you may find a nice companion who feels the same as you do. It's more common than you may think.
You bring up some excellent ones OneEyedDiva.
Someday Diva, you may find a nice companion who feels the same as you do. It's more common than you may think.
There’s nothing wrong with that. You do what works for ‘you.’ I know an elderly couple that married ( 2nd marriage for both ) yet each kept their own houses. That’s how they wanted it and they seem happier than the average couple.Thank you Keesha. Radish Rose....just may...never know. My sister who thought she'd never be bothered again started dating a man, maybe 10 years ago and they've been going strong ever since. Though they take good care of each other like husband and wife, neither wants to marry because each has a home and children....things can get complicated. Plus they like the option of being able to retreat to their own homes should they get tired of each other.
I wouldn't get married or live with anyone at this point in my life. It would be nice to have a sort of committed companion to travel with or socialize with but not someone that I need to clean up after.layful:nthego:
As far as the "community property" is concerned, the only way a new partner would be entitled any of the property is if it was acquired as a couple. Your property remains YOUR property (in California)...I'm coming to this forum late, but I feel as many here do. I would never again marry for a number of reasons - especially as I live in a community property state. I had poor luck in marriage - mainly because I made poor choices for mates. I did some dating after my divorce with the usual results. At that point I decided I couldn't trust my judgment in that area - and swore off the whole thing - and I have been completely happy - even took back my maiden name.
As far as the "community property" is concerned, the only way a new partner would be entitled any of the property is if it was acquired as a couple. Your property remains YOUR property (in California)...
--if he could prove it was his money that went into the house remodel he could possibly have a claim against the house for the value of the remodeling.
As far as the "community property" is concerned, the only way a new partner would be entitled any of the property is if it was acquired as a couple. Your property remains YOUR property (in California)...
Not necessarily. For instance, if you own a house (like I do) and it increases in value while you are married (as mine did) your spouse is entitled to half the increase in value when you divorce. I foiled that by refusing to do any maintenance on the house and the value went down. I don't know how it is in other community property states, but that's how it is in Washington. My was a parasite, who contributed very little to our marriage and I felt no obligation to accommodate him further.