RadishRose
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My washer and dryer is upstairs where the 2 bedrooms are, so that makes it easier. Folding and put away isn't always fun, but I'd rather do laundry than vacuum.
Ditto on the vacuuming. Hubby usually does it because I don't like it.My washer and dryer is upstairs where the 2 bedrooms are, so that makes it easier. Folding and put away isn't always fun, but I'd rather do laundry than vacuum.
Hubby usually does it because I don't like it.
me too... it's the darn stairs that kill my back when I'm vacc'ing.... I've got a Miele which is great but it's heavy, and I have a lightweight stick one too which I use just to run over the kitchen floor and hallways , but the latter doesn't do the stairs very well so hubs does them for me with the Miele when he's got a day off, or at the weekend ...My washer and dryer is upstairs where the 2 bedrooms are, so that makes it easier. Folding and put away isn't always fun, but I'd rather do laundry than vacuum.
Oh yes, the darn stairs! I can't manage the Hoover on them, so I just use the stick vac. When Eric is around, he'll use the Hoover on them.me too... it's the darn stairs that kill my back when I'm vacc'ing.... I've got a Miele which is great but it's heavy, and I have a lightweight stick one too which I use just to run over the kitchen floor and hallways , but the latter doesn't do the stairs very well so hubs does them for me with the Miele when he's got a day off, or at the weekend ...
When I retired I was smart enough to figure out that my share of indoor household tasks needed to increase and that a smart man would pick up the ones that he liked the best. For some reason, doing laundry has always been a task that I sort of enjoyed so I just picked it up without any discussion and have been doing it reliably for the last 14 years. I also added cleaning out the dishwasher in the morning and cleaning up after breakfast. I am also largely in charge of lunch and all things related to coffee, wine and paying the bills. Being a Navy man, I do my own ironing.
This strategy has served me quite well. …. and I am well aware that I still come out ahead.
I do get annoyed when I find remnants of shredded Kleenex when I am folding clothes.
Hey! I was just gonna ask him.....Will you marry me?![]()
LOL, well I am already spoken for, but on a serious note: I do think that men who do not help with household chores are making a mistake that costs them in subtle ways. The retired men that I personally know are in much happier marriages if they make a serious contribution inside the house (unless they are engaged in serious outside projects or work.).Will you marry me?![]()
HAHA. The Speed Queen washer I got five years ago has a counter-balance feature that prevents that. No matter how unevenly I fill it, it spins perfectly.The worst part for me is when you have a bulky item like a blanket in the machine, it throws the load off balance, and then the washer bumps and thuds in spin cycle as if it's about to come through the wall...![]()
Do you have a washer/dryer in your apartment, @Sunny?I don't find laundry annoying at all, living in an apartment. For years, I had to lug baskets of laundry down lots of stairs, and lug the clean clothes back up, which was certainly not easy, and would be pretty much impossible now. The problem was the stairs, not the laundry.
In our family we have a dividing of duties. I do the inside stuff minus the maintenance and he does the outside stuff and pool work. That keeps us out of each other’s hair as he has a certain way he likes it done and I have a certain way I like things done. I’m going to be married 40 years next year so it’s working for us. That’s not to say that we don’t know what the other person does, we do. He can cook he can do laundry, he can clean I can mow the lawn I can pull weeds, I can clean the pool but no thanks. LOLLOL, well I am already spoken for, but on a serious note: I do think that men who do not help with household chores are making a mistake that costs them in subtle ways. The retired men that I personally know are in much happier marriages if they make a serious contribution inside the house (unless they are engaged in serious outside projects or work.).
The guy across the street doesn't do a thing and his wife's opinion of him is not that high. The second part of this equation is that everyday movement like doing ordinary chores is important to your health. Sitting on ones fanny all day is very bad, and going to the gym or walking for a couple of miles doesn't make up for it. My neighbor would benefit a great deal by getting up off his butt.
One of the more disgusting things I have seen was a guy running around wearing a sweatshirt with "I'm Retired, Don't Ask Me To Do A Da_n Thing." He looked proud of himself, but I doubt that he is happily married.