hollydolly
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I would have been destroyed, but it was a tragic accident and you probably couldn't have prevented it..but I the heartbreak must have been horrendous, but certainly not you to blame..Thanks Holly and Pinky. It was a very harsh situation that took me two years to get past. When my Dad died, I blamed myself for a long time. My wife, daughter and I had been somewhere and we drove right past Dad’s house just hours before the fire of their home started. My daughter seated in the backseat was only 5 at the time, but she started saying, “Grandpa, Grandpa.” I asked my wife if she wanted to stop and she told me if I wanted to. We were going to be there for dinner the next day, which was Sunday, so I just kept driving. I always wondered what would have happened differently, if I would have stopped.
How would you have felt?
I feel the same about my mother's death, I felt if I'd been there she wouldn't have died... but the truth is you can;'t be there all the time
This may warrant a new thread all of it's own @oldman, sounds like you need to release some pent up memories, and other may like the opportunity to do the same.. I think if you feel up to it, you should start a new thread.
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