JustPlainMe, I think all of us continue to grow and know more about ourselves as we get older. I know what you mean about caring for others, even though I never had children myself. I tend to put others before myself, number one is my husband, but even strangers or my pets will get more caring consideration before myself many times. I think just being here, shows you love yourself, it's just a little thing we do for ourselves personally.
QuickSilver has some good point there, about feeling guilt when we're older and finally want for ourselves. Also, that we're all constantly changing in our thoughts, opinions, feelings about the world around us, and about ourselves.
I think it's important for all of us to love ourselves by allowing a little "me" time in our golden years. It can be very simple things. Go somewhere to enjoy nature, or take in a show that hubby wouldn't particularly care for. Put aside a couple of hours for a nice bubble bath, and some soothing music that you like. Be conscious of your decisions regarding what you'd like to do, and just do it. Sometimes we exaggerate the response of others in our decisions.
We're all seniors here, who have lived all the ups and downs of this life, we deserve some time to ourselves, doing things that will make us happy in our later years. Sometimes buying a simple knickknack, plant or brightly colored blouse, will make our day. We're not used to thinking of ourselves first, but we are very capable of making small changes that help to make us feel better and love ourselves. Keep in mind, you're not alone. :love_heart:
My emotions change often and I have spent a lifetime taking care of others. Hubby, kids, grandkids, patients so I have put myself on the back burner until I have no idea where to start. Looking forward to hearing from all.
