Ladybj
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I will try to keep this short as possible. I have a very close friend. We talked and/or text everyday. She was separated from her husband for almost a year and filed for divorce. - they were married for 11 years. She was dating here and there..did not find anyone special. She was talking of taking him back but she listed the things he had to change. I had a long talk with her. I shared with her it will not be easy, there would be work to do on both parts. She's more of a "take charge" person.
This was the 4th time they separated and got back together. I shared with her she will need to allow him to take the lead in some things in the marriage - and also accept him as he is because he will have to want to change. Well, she took him back. We continued to chat.. he got sick - hopefully he's better now. I text one day to check on her and she mentioned he went to the hospital - so I called her. She did not answer - she text me and stated she is being to herself for now. I am not sure what happened. This has been about 2-3 weeks ago. She has not called but I have texted her in between that time. I respect people boundaries - however, I felt her and I were closer than that. I have not text nor called in about a week or so. I figure once she is ready to talk she will reach out. I still love her dearly and this did hurt a bit because I felt we were closer than her distancing herself from me.
This was the 4th time they separated and got back together. I shared with her she will need to allow him to take the lead in some things in the marriage - and also accept him as he is because he will have to want to change. Well, she took him back. We continued to chat.. he got sick - hopefully he's better now. I text one day to check on her and she mentioned he went to the hospital - so I called her. She did not answer - she text me and stated she is being to herself for now. I am not sure what happened. This has been about 2-3 weeks ago. She has not called but I have texted her in between that time. I respect people boundaries - however, I felt her and I were closer than that. I have not text nor called in about a week or so. I figure once she is ready to talk she will reach out. I still love her dearly and this did hurt a bit because I felt we were closer than her distancing herself from me.