Am I crazy for turning down a chance to go out with a lady?

Hawk said:
Okay okay, she's been here and gone now....Nice lady, didnt
ask her age, long, long gray hair, looks nice...has some years on her, one son from long time back....and get this she is a P.I.,
!!!!! No hanky panky of course,....she wanted to meet me due to having heard my name in association with parole people, who
I used to work with....She furnished a Birthday Pizza LOL...the
take and bake kind, very good....So we had a lot of chit chat
and she said she would be glad to help me out shopping and
that sort of stuff....She has her own P.I. agency, for about 35 yrs or so....anyway, thats the word.....later gang.....
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Awesome!
 

Hawk said:
Okay okay, she's been here and gone now....Nice lady, didnt
ask her age, long, long gray hair, looks nice...has some years on her, one son from long time back....and get this she is a P.I.,
!!!!! No hanky panky of course,....she wanted to meet me due to having heard my name in association with parole people, who
I used to work with....She furnished a Birthday Pizza LOL...the
take and bake kind, very good....So we had a lot of chit chat
and she said she would be glad to help me out shopping and
that sort of stuff....She has her own P.I. agency, for about 35 yrs or so....anyway, thats the word.....later gang.....
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So good to make a new friend.
 
Hawk said:
Okay okay, she's been here and gone now....Nice lady, didnt
ask her age, long, long gray hair, looks nice...has some years on her, one son from long time back....and get this she is a P.I.,
!!!!! No hanky panky of course,....she wanted to meet me due to having heard my name in association with parole people, who
I used to work with....She furnished a Birthday Pizza LOL...the
take and bake kind, very good....So we had a lot of chit chat
and she said she would be glad to help me out shopping and
that sort of stuff....She has her own P.I. agency, for about 35 yrs or so....anyway, thats the word.....later gang.....
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Sounds good Hawk, thanks for the update. Nice you had some pizza and friendly chat. (y)
 
I haven't even come to grips with the knowledge that ladies now ask men out on dates, so I'm a bit old fashioned. Just be sure that some friend or relative knows who you are meeting, where, and when. Call me paranoid, but... It is a strange world with more and more strange people, in my opinion.
 
Hawk said:
BTW forgot to mention that she is a "Biker", that is she
has her own custom motorcycle, and apparently has won
a few awards with it!!! got more nerve than me......:D
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Hawk,

Congratulations, it sounds like you've met someone that will get you on your feet and out the door!

Be sure to tell your son he might get a call in the middle of the night if you get stranded and no questions, please. ;)

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I think that perhaps you are concerned that she might not find you attractive enough. Maybe your self confidence has taken a hit because you are not able to walk well. But that may not even phase her, if she's not a superficial person. And if she is...you don't need her anyway. Going out for ice cream does not a relationship make. I'm sure that if you decide to go, you will shower that day. :D I'm thinking you should give it a chance Hawk. Me personally....I'd never turn down a chance to go for ice cream. 😛
 
Congratulations, Hawk. You are brave.

I just had my first date since my girlfriend died 5 years ago. Seems unbelievable. It was a 'friend' date. I just wanted to be out on a date with a woman. I drove. We went out to a movie. Had conversation in the car. I took her back home. No kiss. We already knew each other from a social group we both attend. Just friends.

I am too afraid to ask out a woman I am actually attracted to. I am 68, and still 'functional' in that arena, but still.... I am still very leery of dating.

Oh by the way, a woman I was attracted to told me to call her up if I wanted to go to a movie sometime, and I chickened out! I'm scared of something (many things, maybe?) about dating.
 
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