Thank you for this thread,
@PeppermintPatty. I didn't know Canadian jets were in the sky minutes after the 911 attacks. That and some other things on this thread have had me crying with emotion over the love, brotherhood and sisterhood between our nations, our people and the vast majority of members of this forum.
Perhaps I responded so strongly to the relentless stream of unkind words about the US that he-who-shall-not-be-named makes at every possible opportunity (and when there isn't an opportunity, he creates one) because of my love, affection and respect for Canada. It hurts to imagine Canadians might view us with such derision.
The kind, supportive words by Canadians SFers since I called him out has been heart-warming. As has been the responses by Americans about our populations' love and support for you, our wonderful neighbor to the north.
Thank you again.
Actually Starsong, the credit for this thread and the outcome is THANKS TO YOU!
Until that post that criticized the Americans about their gun laws, I truly didn’t acknowledge the impact the insult had and on so many.
It took viewing the words from another member to notice that I’ve said similar things. My own fearful feelings and attitude towards violence of any kind was so strong that it overshadowed the fact that my personal opinions were actually hurting and insulting others. It took the impact of viewing another members words for me to realize that.
Then when you posted what you did, it struck me like a bolt of lightening. All those needless, unnecessary words I’d written came flooding back to me and I cried like a baby. Your country has done so much for others and reading that nobody had ever helped you in return was heart breaking.
When 911 happened, I can remember everything I was doing that day. My husband and I were trying to plant a weeping mulberry tree in our front garden. It was huge and took a fork truck to get it in our trailer

…so you can imagine the effort. We argued and went inside for a break.
When we turned on the TV and saw the breaking news, were horrified. We just couldn’t believe it. Of course we thought it was some type of freak accident but then the other plane hit. I literally shook in fear. Stunned! Like others, the realization that this was an intentional attack was beyond comprehension and will stay that way in my mind forever.
Learning that our country stepped up to instantly help in whatever way we could made me realize that we were in this together. Our military and national security really showed that we DID have strength and power as well as the ability to work with you until you were safely out of harms way. Truthfully its , by far, my proudest moments to be a Canadian.
Our military might be the pun of many jokes but we came through when you needed us most. Now I’m bawling again.
Your post was the break through I needed for me to understand that just because there’s a huge difference between our gun laws and the mentality that goes with it, TOGETHER we compliment and balance one another.
Thank you again for this very important and valuable lesson. I shall remember it forever.