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QS! Who goosed the cat? Best one yet! Now we need to post pics of members with similar expressions. Any brave volunteers? Lol
OMG I've just crawled out of bed and logged on and I've been cackin' myself reading all of the posts that happened while I was sleeping. Take a step back everyone and reread the melodrama again. It's hilariously funny in a bizarre kind of way.
Full moon in four days. Is that why we're all going a little bit mad?
Thanks Lon for posting this thread, from what I can gather there are other members expressing your feelings. I have received several PMs and direct emails from members stating that the forum has variously become boring, full of crap, not much fun any more, and so on, there is also some alarm expressed about the increased number of toxic postings and personal attacks on other members.
My take on it is that having been here for only a short time myself, and not that familiar with forums in general, is that during the first couple of months I loved what seemed to be good family of friends here, it was both informative and fun.
Shortly after this period, the dynamics changed into a seeming split between the serious and the humorous styles of posting, an imbalance maybe? Unfortunately this led to several members leaving or ceasing to post, a banning, and afterwards a subsequent malaise.
I posted somewhere else a while back, that this forum was a microcosm of the real world, and just like real civilisations all eventually come to an end, so will this forum. We humans have simply not mastered the art of living together harmoniously.
However in the meantime I hope we can turn this forum around for another season, by becoming more tolerant of others opinions and views on life, and desisting from personally attacking other members for expressing them.
Just like life, eh?A forum is what you make it and what you contribute to it. IMHO.
The original question, "Whats Wrong With Senior Forums"?
In my experience threads go "Off Topic" in lots of cases, this
is upsetting to some. I think that longer serving members are
the most guilty of this practice.
Then there is the people who don't like each other who start
bad mouthing one another in a thread, another off-putting
thing, to some/most.
I see a mention of Politics, Politics should not be in a general
forum, they cause a lot of bad blood and arguments.
Politics should have a dedicated forum, it then is a matter of
choice if you want to go there, personally I don't see any point
in falling out with anybody over politics, voting in an election is
secret and your political views should be too.
I have been a member in lots of senior forums and I know of three
that closed in the UK, mainly through arguments in the open.
If you don't like somebody, or some posts, don't answer, especially
don't answer negatively.
Mike.