Retiring to a remote location

lilybriscoe

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My husband and I are considering moving from Boston to a rural location. We fell in love with the romantic idea of the move on a recent visit, but we haven't quite committed to it yet. Have any of you retired from a city to a rural area? There are a lot of things that we're trying to consider and weigh. I'm sure there would be challenges, especially as we get older. If you've made a similar move, I'm wondering if you would be willing to share your experiences.

Thanks!
 

I moved out in the hills here 13 years ago. Best thing I've ever done. Its so quiet and peaceful, and no one whines if you are a little late getting the lawn mowed. It's 20 miles to the nearest ANYthing, though, so you plan ahead for trips to town. a good generator and a 4WD are good things to have. But I can deer hunt from a lawn chair in my back yard.
I eat better too, with several fruit trees, including peaches, apples and apricots. I have blueberries too. Gardening was good, once I got smart enough to put in raised beds so I could weed sitting on a stool.
But if you are real social, it probably isn't such a good idea.
 
I've lived city to county several times. San Diego to Bear Lake Id, 28 miles one way for groceries or medical. Arizona to South Dakota, major medical 120 miles away one way. As we get more dependent on Medical it becomes more critical as to proximity to MAJOR medical facilities. It wasn't just the snow, the unplowed roads impassible at times, it was the feeling of isolation in winter.
 

I'm 21 miles from the hospital, BIG one. I could take a room next door, but I refuse to live in fear of dieing.

I like that! We all gotta croak sometime, right? I'm working on a philosophy of caution: be more careful and pay close attention at all times, lest I fall on my fool head again; eat more judiciously and healthfully; avoid risky situations, whenever one is seen developing; exercise more regularly; check blood pressure regularly; get physical exams regularly, including blood work-up.

There's my philosophy, now all I gotta do implement it! See how easy it is? imp
 
I am not certain that at some point being far from a hospital is not a blessing. Do I really want to be resucitated in my eighties or older???? Quality over quantity of life please.

Shali, I know lots of people in their 80s who are still fully enjoying life and I bet you do too.
 
I agree Glinda. I should have been less fuzzy in my post. I come from a family that tries to live forever. Lol. 97 is the current record. That said, I have seen some family members linger long after the quality of their lives is lost. That situation I would prefer to avoid.
 
I'd love to live in the country. For me being single, it's not practical. Plus my limited income on full retirement and my desire to then not have a car kind of puts it out of any plan. But I love the idea and think it's great for those who can.
 
Fortunately both my husband and I love the city, so for us it's a no-brainer to stay here. We love being close to everything: services, stores, recreation, great food and wine, friends and family. Great area, gorgeous weather. Amazon delivers to our doorstep as do numerous other companies so if we don't feel like going to stores to shop, we don't have to. Wonderful neighbors on both sides, always happy to help out.

No interest in living in the country. A nice place to visit, but don't want or need to live there. The great thing about city life is that you can be as sociable or non-sociable as you want to be, depending on your mood. But if you need someone, there's usually someone around. The best of both worlds!
 
We abandoned the city rat race, pollution, and crime almost 13 years ago, and moved to 40 acres of heavy forestland in Central Missouri. That has been one of the best decisions we ever made. We have a nice small town about 3 miles away that has most of the essentials, and virtually everything else we might need is within 50 miles, or a 1 hour drive. The neighbors are all nice, and we can leave for the day, forget to lock the doors, and not have to worry about some nitwit stealing our stuff. The air is clean, the water is the best, and the only noise is the hundreds of birds singing their songs. There is constant work to be done to keep the place looking good...I mow almost 1.5 acres of yard...and go through the forest every year cutting down the dead or damaged trees for firewood to feed our big outdoor wood furnace in the Winter, and that constant physical exercise is the Best health care plan a person can get.

About the Only downside is the gravel road. I Used to be a fanatic about keeping the cars clean, but with a dry dusty road, that is almost impossible. All I do anymore is keep a small leaf blower inside the garage door, and when we come back from somewhere, I just fire it up and dust off the car/truck before putting in the garage...to keep a mess from being tracked into the house.

We go up to the city about once a month, for a couple of days to visit the kids and casinos....and 2 or 3 days in that zoo is more than enough to make me appreciate getting back home.
 
I wouldn't want to be so isolated. If you get to a point where both of you can't drive you need reliable transport.

Our location is nearly ideal. Quiet, peaceful, pretty, not too much road traffic. An hourly bus into town. Hour and a half to a big city. Community hospital and shopping 10 miles away. The problem could be with a serious medical emergency. Ambulance can get us to the small hospital but for a major medical centre they have to get us there by ferry and in the middle of the night they can call out the emergency ferry, or take us by helicopter.

People on some of the islands have only the helicopter to rely on for emergencies, although there is at least one doctor on each one.
 
I'm kind of doing both at the moment. Got my house and 38 acres in the Ozarks, (with a small town 11 miles away) and my house in a neighborhood in central Florida. Love both... but, both wife and I have feet of sand and are now contemplating unloading both places and heading out in the motor home for a new adventure. Seems like our constant moving has had us out running old age. :)
 
If I get where I can't drive, I have 2 choices. Call on those available to drive me; or sell the place and move to town............and call on those available to drive me. As for social....I DO have a few neighbors. Nice people, most of them.
 
I can get to just about anywhere in Scotland via (free) bus and they will drop me in front of my house. So there would be no need to move.
 
What's a bus???

It's called public transport which is very good in Europe. And I can leave my car in the driveway when I want to and ride the bus for free all over the country.

One of my buses, only not this particular one as it appears to be broken down. :playful:

bus.jpg
 
I'm kind of doing both at the moment. Got my house and 38 acres in the Ozarks, (with a small town 11 miles away) and my house in a neighborhood in central Florida. Love both... but, both wife and I have feet of sand and are now contemplating unloading both places and heading out in the motor home for a new adventure. Seems like our constant moving has had us out running old age. :)

Living on the road would I think be an entirely different ball of wax. ;) I've read some journals of people that have done just that and loved it, becoming permanent gypsies; others sold their RV at the first chance and holed up in whatever little Mayberry they found themselves in.

Good luck whatever you do.
 
It's called public transport which is very good in Europe. And I can leave my car in the driveway when I want to and ride the bus for free all over the country.

One of my buses, only not this particular one as it appears to be broken down. :playful:

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I know. We don't have any here unless you count Trailways long distance buses. No taxis either. Can't take a train or plane either, unless you drive 100 miles first. And that IS if I move into town.
 
I know. We don't have any here unless you count Trailways long distance buses. No taxis either. Can't take a train or plane either, unless you drive 100 miles first. And that IS if I move into town.

The US for some reason doesn't want public transport or decent train service except in places like NYC. They love their cars too much and gas is cheap. So if you live in many areas and can no longer drive, you're screwed.
 


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