it's complicated. My lovely SO now needs more and more daily assistance, and my own health makes that more difficult every day. So i'm taking her back to Ohio to live with her son. I'm likely going to enter a 'senior facility' to make my own life a little easier. And finally, both my children and their mother are buried in Central Ohio and, though I can't explain it, I feel the need to be close to them. (Although some days I feel like I need to make a one way trip back to the Big island of Hawaii. I dunno.)
Sorry to be a downer in an otherwise upbeat thread.