Today Starts The Holy Month of Ramadan

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Ramadan does not occur the same month every year. During Ramadan, fasting and praying abound. Muslims must abstain from food, beverages and intimacy during the daylight hours. Usually the fast is broken in a group setting, sometimes by eating dates before the big meal is served. I do not fast because I am diabetic and prone to hypoglycemia if I wait too long to eat. My son, however is also diabetic and he's been fasting for decades, long before he was diagnosed.

Thank goodness Ramadan is this month. I feel so sorry for those who observe during the long days in the summertime. Since those of us who do not fast are obligated to feed 30 hungry people (or the equivalent), I usually donate money for 30 meals to a local charitable organization that literally feeds wholesome, fresh cooked, hot dinners to whoever lines up on Sunday evenings. How much I need to send is determined by the Brother who runs the program.


We are also required to abstain from other worldly things. For me, that will be not watching shows that feature vulgar language, violence, sex and the like. Unfortunately a couple of shows I really like have started including foul language, in keeping with what seems to be the latest trend. I don't party anymore, so that's no problem. Some Muslims strive to read the entire Quran during Ramadan. The greeting for Muslims during Ramadan is "Ramadan Mubarak". Some reply with "Ramadan Kareem" but that could be the initial greeting as well. From Wikipedia:


Ramadan[a][note 1] is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar. It is observed by Muslims worldwide as a month of fasting (sawm), prayer (salah), reflection, and community.[5] It is also the month in which the Quran is believed to have been revealed to the Islamic prophet Muhammad. The annual observance of Ramadan is regarded as one of the Five Pillars of Islam[6] and lasts twenty-nine to thirty days, from one sighting of the crescent moon to the next.[7][8]

Fasting from dawn to sunset is obligatory (fard) for all adult Muslims who are not acutely or chronically ill, travelling, elderly, breastfeeding, pregnant, or menstruating.[9] The predawn meal is referred to as suhur, and the nightly feast that breaks the fast is called iftar.[10][11] Although rulings (fatawa) have been issued declaring that Muslims who live in regions with a midnight sun or polar night should follow the timetable of Mecca,[12] it is common practice to follow the timetable of the closest country in which night can be distinguished from day.[13][14][15]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramadan

After Ramadan, Muslims celebrate the Eid for three days, by gathering together (usually in their finery), having feasts, giving gifts (optional) and having fun activities for the children. The day starts, however, with the Eid prayer. More about the Eid after Ramadan.
 

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I'm " Catholic " not religious but a great voice is a great voice .

Yes, he has a very nice voice. He's calling the Adhan, the call to prayer. This is the only "music" that will be heard in mosques. Unlike other religious gatherings, there is no music during the services. Thank you for posting this. šŸ¤—
 

Interesting post @OneEyedDiva My aunt's carer is Muslim and one of us normally covers for her at Eid, I believe this year it is expected to be Sunday 30th or Monday 31st March? We were talking about the fasting last week and she said that she is used to it now and doesn't get hungry during the fast.

Eid, as I understand it, takes place the day after the new Moon and marks the start of Shawwal (10th month of the Islamic calendar)? Have I got that right? I find it interesting, the connection with the new Moon.

Ramadan Mubarak @OneEyedDiva
 
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Ramadan does not occur the same month every year. During Ramadan, fasting a praying abound. Muslims must abstain from food, beverages and intimacy during the daylight hours. Usually the fast is broken in a group setting, sometimes by eating dates before the big meal is served. I do not fast because I am diabetic and prone to hypoglycemia if I wait too long to eat. My son, however is also diabetic and he's been fasting for decades, long before he was diagnosed.

Thank goodness Ramadan is this month. I feel so sorry for those who observe during the long days in the summertime. Since those of us who do not fast are obligated to feed 30 hungry people (or the equivalent), I usually donate money for 30 meals to a local charitable organization that literally feeds wholesome, fresh cooked, hot dinners to whoever lines up on Sunday evenings. How much I need to send is determined by the Brother who runs the program.


We are also required to abstain from other worldly things. For me, that will be not watching shows that feature vulgar language, violence, sex and the like. Unfortunately a couple of shows I really like have started including foul language, in keeping with what seems to be the latest trend. I don't party anymore, so that's no problem. Some Muslims strive to read the entire Quran during Ramadan. The greeting for Muslims during Ramadan is "Ramadan Mubarak". Some reply with "Ramadan Kareem" but that could be the initial greeting as well. From Wikipedia:


Ramadan[a][note 1] is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar. It is observed by Muslims worldwide as a month of fasting (sawm), prayer (salah), reflection, and community.[5] It is also the month in which the Quran is believed to have been revealed to the Islamic prophet Muhammad. The annual observance of Ramadan is regarded as one of the Five Pillars of Islam[6] and lasts twenty-nine to thirty days, from one sighting of the crescent moon to the next.[7][8]

Fasting from dawn to sunset is obligatory (fard) for all adult Muslims who are not acutely or chronically ill, travelling, elderly, breastfeeding, pregnant, or menstruating.[9] The predawn meal is referred to as suhur, and the nightly feast that breaks the fast is called iftar.[10][11] Although rulings (fatawa) have been issued declaring that Muslims who live in regions with a midnight sun or polar night should follow the timetable of Mecca,[12] it is common practice to follow the timetable of the closest country in which night can be distinguished from day.[13][14][15]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramadan

After Ramadan, Muslims celebrate the Eid for three days, by gathering together (usually in their finery), having feasts, giving gifts (optional) and having fun activities for the children. The day starts, however, with the Eid prayer. More about the Eid after Ramadan.
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I’m a Conservative Jew and very good friends with a Muslim neighbor originally from Syria and I look forward to his annual invitation to join his family for their Eid festivities. I circle Eid on my new calendar every year. I leave his home with a tummy filled with great foods and a heart filled with love and happiness.
 
I’m a Conservative Jew and very good friends with a Muslim neighbor originally from Syria and I look forward to his annual invitation to join his family for their Eid festivities. I circle Eid on my new calendar every year. I leave his home with a tummy filled with great foods and a heart filled with love and happiness.
I have had the pleasure in life of meeting people from all races / ethnicities / religions and got along with them all with my bad jokes and all .

Interestingly enough being now in Miami I do not find this place a melting pot at all yet it was in my haunts of Albany , I'm not by the beach .
 
Interesting post @OneEyedDiva My aunt's carer is Muslim and one of us normally covers for her at Eid, I believe this year it is expected to be Sunday 30th or Monday 31st March? We were talking about the fasting last week and she said that she is used to it now and doesn't get hungry during the fast.

Eid, as I understand it, takes place the day after the new Moon and marks the start of Shawwal (10th month of the Islamic calendar)? Have I got that right? I find it interesting, the connection with the new Moon.

Ramadan Mubarak @OneEyedDiva
You are correct in the the Eid takes place the first three days of Shawwal. How long do you fast for? How nice that you cover for your aunt's caregiver so she can celebrate the very important Eid holiday.
The longest I’ve fasted has been 5 days

As I said in the OP, I do not fast, but Muslims fast for the entire month. The longest I've tried to fast was when I attempted to intermittent fast for 16 hours. Not for me.
I am not Muslim so one eyed diva or other knowledgeable person can correct me if wrong

But my understanding is that they fast for the whole month - but only between sunrise and sunset, they do eat every day before and/ or after those times.
Yes, I used to make sure my husband had something to eat before daylight. And he'd make sure to be at the masjid (mosque) before Iftar (the breaking of the fast).
I’m a Conservative Jew and very good friends with a Muslim neighbor originally from Syria and I look forward to his annual invitation to join his family for their Eid festivities. I circle Eid on my new calendar every year. I leave his home with a tummy filled with great foods and a heart filled with love and happiness.
I'm so glad you enjoy Eid celebrations with your neighbor. I wish the Islamophobic people I've come across here on the forum who claim Muslims hate everyone but Muslims, would read this! I hope you'll enjoy the coming Eid as much as you've enjoyed those in the past. Do you have a favorite food? Thank you for posting thisā£ļø
 
Having been schooled at an Anglican church school I have forgotten so much about Christianity, I've been an atheist for decades.
This last week at work a consumer asked about Shrove Tuesday, after umming ah-ing I said that it was something to do with Easter. In recent years I've learnt more about Ramadan and Eid thanks to one particular workmate, sadly he moved on to another job recently. I have more time for many Muslim people than some so called Christians.
 
At one time long; long ago Muslims and Jews welcomed each other into their homes to sit at the table and eat and remember the old stories - some say Abraham ; old father Abraham started it by producing two sons - the first one was Ishmael from his loins and his wifes maidservant Sarah ; the second was Isaac his first son with his wife Sarah. The two lads were described as 'brothers' who played well together and believe it or believe it not one went on to begin the head of the Islamic nation and the other the Jewish nation. and they played happily together ??? try Genesis around chapters 15-18 - if you don't believe

ps: can anyone provide a Koran reference to the same event? Lent my Koran to a friend a few yrs back and never got it back?
 
You are correct in the the Eid takes place the first three days of Shawwal. How long do you fast for? How nice that you cover for your aunt's caregiver so she can celebrate the very important Eid holiday.


As I said in the OP, I do not fast, but Muslims fast for the entire month. The longest I've tried to fast was when I attempted to intermittent fast for 16 hours. Not for me.

Yes, I used to make sure my husband had something to eat before daylight. And he'd make sure to be at the masjid (mosque) before Iftar (the breaking of the fast).

I'm so glad you enjoy Eid celebrations with your neighbor. I wish the Islamophobic people I've come across here on the forum who claim Muslims hate everyone but Muslims, would read this! I hope you'll enjoy the coming Eid as much as you've enjoyed those in the past. Do you have a favorite food? Thank you for posting this
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I am not Muslim so do not fast but, the carer gives us the dates so we know when she needs cover. Her whole family share a meal before sunrise and after sunset.

I do intermittent fasting. I do it at intervals throughout the year as I believe it is good to give your body a rest sometimes. I know people who have used fasting to lose weight but, personally, I don't think it's a great idea because most people cannot maintain it.
 
I have good friends from Albania who own a restaurant and bakery. They are conservative Muslims, and the one son who is a splendid baker just seems so spent after several hours of baking the most delicious goodies for their customers. I once asked him on a very hot day if he couldn't get a dispensation to at least drink some water, at least. When he said no, I was stunned, but being a Catholic and having to do our share of fasting, etc. during the Lenten season, I could empathize with this lovely young man. Great family and they did invite me to their Eid festivities and had a great time.
 

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