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You've not actually been diagnosed with it yet, have you Pepper ?
yes my father in his early 70's too... he died at 82 caused by a mutitiude of mini strokes, brought on by the PD...Hollydolly: My father was diagnosed with Parkinson Disease when he was in his early 70's. He had tremors, a stoop walking and endless rolling of the fingers. He eventually was told it was Parkinsons with a blood test. He suffered with it for 18 years and ended up in a nursing home. He lost his ability to speak, and it was a blessing when he did pass away.
Yes. I was diagnosed. Of course I will go for second opinion.You've not actually been diagnosed with it yet, have you Pepper ?
I thought you said you hadn't been until you see the second doctor....ok...... the thing is if the first doctor diagnosed you correctly.., then he would have started you on some kind of regimen...Yes. I was diagnosed. Of course I will go for second opinion.
I have potential good news:
My pharmacist, who I've known for 20 years said, and I quote "Don't quote me, but definitely get a second opinion. He's a shitty doctor, though I shouldn't say that, I'm telling the truth. Between us."
That gives me some hope.
I must, as I have paperwork I need to show and have explained to me. If I have Parkinson's I will seek a better doctor and better care elsewhere. I was very rushed, which was psychologically damaging for me. I was able to calm down a bit yesterday. I'm my own worst enemy, my dad said, and he was right.keep pluggin away but wot ya gonna say to a second doc if he/she asks have you seen any other docs?
well as long as you've a swag of money you can see as many docs as you want I guess??I must, as I have paperwork I need to show and have explained to me. If I have Parkinson's I will seek a better doctor and better care elsewhere. I was very rushed, which was psychologically damaging for me. I was able to calm down a bit yesterday. I'm my own worst enemy, my dad said, and he was right.
I used to wonder why old people bought pants that were so baggy in the seat. These days I understand the reason for that.Pepper, don't worry all the rest of us will get something bad. So far as I know, EVERYONE dies in the end. Even if we live to a very old age like me at 90, I have very bad arthritis and have trouble walking. My abdomen has a huge pot belly and I have to open my pants when I sit down. Plus, facing the end of life has even more uncontrolled suffering.
My solution is to accept EVERYTHING bad that happens and just try to enjoy yourself doing something interesting every day. For me I play Civilization VI on my PC and all my pain and suffering go away while I manage a nation from the stone age to the nuclear age.
yes my father in his early 70's too... he died at 82 caused by a mutitiude of mini strokes, brought on by the PD...
except mini strokes are very much a part of Parkinsons disease..no-one dies from PD they die from the effects of PD, which is very often strokes...I used to wonder why old people bought pants that were so baggy in the seat. These days I understand the reason for that.
My father died in his 80's from lots of mini-strokes, and he didn't have PD. It's like Mitch says, all of us will get something bad and PD being such a slow mover, we might have it and die of something else.
I bet lots of times even the doctor doesn't know exactly what caused our final demise. I read somewhere that quite often people have had a big bowl of ice cream before their heart attacks. I expect it took many years before some doctor noticed that correlation and even now we aren't warned about it. They're just now noticing how often people have strokes after a bout of anger over something.
I need to give up ice-cream and playing Hearts.
Just wanted to let you all know that I am facing yet another health challenge. Was put on Rytary. Am not taking to it well. Have appointment for a second opinion, but since it's with the Parkinson's Institute it is not until September. May find a crappier place for a second opinion so I can get it faster.
I am extremely depressed, which I understand makes it worse.
Hence the unbearable shaking.
Sometimes laughter is the best medicine.My estate!![]()
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Thank you! That made me laugh!
I have PD and I agree its better, IF POSSIBLE, to laugh when you can.Sometimes laughter is the best medicine.
I wish you well as you face this challenge. I have no advice to offer other than carpe diem. As much as is possible try to live in the moment, appreciating whatever uplifting thoughts and events that come your way.
Laugh, and laugh often.
Pepper, talk to us when laughter doesn't come easily because there are many here who understand Parkinsons and who can relate to your emotional rollercoaster ride.