What Factors Go Into a Good Relationship Between Significant Others?

Ruthanne

Ruthanne

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Just wondering what factors you think ought to be taken into account in significant relationships. I know that sexual relations are one but I don't think as we get older that they are the most important thing but I could be mistaken.:sentimental:
 

Selflessness, consideration for each other, love and affection, laughter, loyalty, mutual interests, friendship and teamwork. :flowers:
 

I value people that have interests of their own, are financially independent and accept me just the way they find me.

It makes the time I spend with a person more interesting and more enjoyable than being with someone 24 X 7.

At this point in my life I would rather go it on my own and take things as they come.

Now write this down, LOL!!!

 
All of the above but for myself I would add letting me have my own alone time and I think I need more than most. The hubby is fine with it. He likes to crawl away in our little TV room and watch whatever, and I like to disappear into my daughters room which I have made into my craft and hobby room. My computer is there as well as my photo albums and anything else that interests me. I even have a do not disturb sign for the door. I have a friend who's husband is permanently attached to her. I don't know how she stands it.
 
Almost every community I frequent has a Ruth or Ruthanne who plays a significant part in keeping the group going. I sometimes wonder if they are all the same person. LOL. :love_heart:
 
I think it is partially accepting the fact that the other person isn't perfect and neither are you. That, and knowing when to keep your mouth shut. The main thing though is trust. No matter what happens, we both know we're there for each other.

Don
 
Jiminey Crycket said:
Almost every community I frequent has a Ruth or Ruthanne who plays a significant part in keeping the group going. I sometimes wonder if they are all the same person. LOL. :love_heart:
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I'm not sure who you are referring to as there is a Ruth and there is me, too, in this thread. This is really the only forums where I am somewhat active. I go to a few other ones but don't participate much at all.:sentimental:
 
Ruth n Jersey said:
All of the above but for myself I would add letting me have my own alone time and I think I need more than most. The hubby is fine with it. He likes to crawl away in our little TV room and watch whatever, and I like to disappear into my daughters room which I have made into my craft and hobby room. My computer is there as well as my photo albums and anything else that interests me. I even have a do not disturb sign for the door. I have a friend who's husband is permanently attached to her. I don't know how she stands it.
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I am with you on alone time Ruth. When I was married many years ago I would want to be alone for several days at times.
 
Aunt Bea said:
I value people that have interests of their own, are financially independent and accept me just the way they find me.

It makes the time I spend with a person more interesting and more enjoyable than being with someone 24 X 7.

At this point in my life I would rather go it on my own and take things as they come.

Now write this down, LOL!!!

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ohhhh yeah, Bette!
 
I think after being married 51yrs so far Loving your partner ,Being truthful, Being there for each other,and never let small issues divide you is very important.
 
I think a shared sense of humor is most important and the ability to laugh about your own foibles.

Secondly----Good Communication by listening and paying attention.
 

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