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If a person wishes to attract the opposite gender, whether it is just to get attention, or for romance, how that is accomplished depends upon whether you are male or female.
Women know, and have known since the dawn of time, and with absolute certainty, that men are most swayed by what they see. In the world of women, they have a thousand choices from which to choose their bait. Think about that for a moment. Why do you suppose there are specialty locations which are called "Beauty" Salons? A woman can enter and have her hair done up in hundreds of different styles and colors. She can have complete "facials" and have as much make-up applied as she desires. Additionally, she can have manicures and pedicures done in a rainbow of colors. The total effect can often be dazzling. Oh, you say you doubt that ? Remember the scene in the film "Moonstruck" ? Do you remember Cher, before and after the beauty salon?
But wait, we are just scratching the surface of how women make themselves attractive. The next biggest ticket is clothing.
Women's clothing is designed primarily to one end --- to show off her figure to its best effect. The choices women have is mind-boggling. Deeply cut blouses, sweaters, and dresses are fashioned to place her cleavage on proud display. This is no accident. It is done to make people notice her feminine figure.
The length of the, skirt or dress, hem-line is usually above the knee and sometimes much, much higher. Why ? To show off her womanly legs and to show more skin. If she has a tiny waist you can be sure that will also be proudly displayed. In fact much of her wardrobe is so incredibly tight that it is often difficult to know whether she is wearing pants or spray paint.
Even a woman's shoes are often designed to show off her feet and well pedicured nails. And stiletto's absolutely scream, sexy.
A well dressed woman, with complete make-up, and her hair done up just right, has merely to show up at any public location and she is sure to get attention. If the timing and location is right, men will trip over themselves, to attempt to talk with her. She is now in a position to pick and choose from amongst her potential suitors.
Now, let's compare how men get women's attention AND get her to come to him. About the only hope he has is to be well groomed, with neat clean clothes, polished shoes and perhaps wearing a light cologne. Even with that done, the chances of him getting her to come to him, are remote. It is important to notice that he does not have the option of showing off skin. Women, in a social gathering, just don't care about bare skin on a man. Look at any well dressed businessman and the only skin you will see is his face, neck and hands.
Men approach women, knowing full well, that he will be rebuffed 9 out of 10 times. It is a numbers game for the man, he MUST make many attempts if he has any chance of ever getting a date.
Women know, and have known since the dawn of time, and with absolute certainty, that men are most swayed by what they see. In the world of women, they have a thousand choices from which to choose their bait. Think about that for a moment. Why do you suppose there are specialty locations which are called "Beauty" Salons? A woman can enter and have her hair done up in hundreds of different styles and colors. She can have complete "facials" and have as much make-up applied as she desires. Additionally, she can have manicures and pedicures done in a rainbow of colors. The total effect can often be dazzling. Oh, you say you doubt that ? Remember the scene in the film "Moonstruck" ? Do you remember Cher, before and after the beauty salon?
But wait, we are just scratching the surface of how women make themselves attractive. The next biggest ticket is clothing.
Women's clothing is designed primarily to one end --- to show off her figure to its best effect. The choices women have is mind-boggling. Deeply cut blouses, sweaters, and dresses are fashioned to place her cleavage on proud display. This is no accident. It is done to make people notice her feminine figure.
The length of the, skirt or dress, hem-line is usually above the knee and sometimes much, much higher. Why ? To show off her womanly legs and to show more skin. If she has a tiny waist you can be sure that will also be proudly displayed. In fact much of her wardrobe is so incredibly tight that it is often difficult to know whether she is wearing pants or spray paint.
Even a woman's shoes are often designed to show off her feet and well pedicured nails. And stiletto's absolutely scream, sexy.
A well dressed woman, with complete make-up, and her hair done up just right, has merely to show up at any public location and she is sure to get attention. If the timing and location is right, men will trip over themselves, to attempt to talk with her. She is now in a position to pick and choose from amongst her potential suitors.
Now, let's compare how men get women's attention AND get her to come to him. About the only hope he has is to be well groomed, with neat clean clothes, polished shoes and perhaps wearing a light cologne. Even with that done, the chances of him getting her to come to him, are remote. It is important to notice that he does not have the option of showing off skin. Women, in a social gathering, just don't care about bare skin on a man. Look at any well dressed businessman and the only skin you will see is his face, neck and hands.
Men approach women, knowing full well, that he will be rebuffed 9 out of 10 times. It is a numbers game for the man, he MUST make many attempts if he has any chance of ever getting a date.
