Extramarital Sex-How Do You Feel About it?

I was at the coffee shop last year a women ( she was a friend always set beside me, and we talked, she put her hands between my legs and grabbed me, I pushed her hands away, I had another women set across from me , she just wanted to talk with me, not the guy she was setting next to. two weeks ago a women I was friends with ran over and hugged me at the store, then later on she tried to hold hands with me. I'm married , love my wife would never have sex with anyone else, but I like to have friends no matter what the sex, just don't like the pushing for something else.
 

john19485 said:
I was at the coffee shop last year a women ( she was a friend always set beside me, and we talked, she put her hands between my legs and grabbed me, I pushed her hands away, I had another women set across from me , she just wanted to talk with me, not the guy she was setting next to. two weeks ago a women I was friends with ran over and hugged me at the store, then later on she tried to hold hands with me. I'm married , love my wife would never have sex with anyone else, but I like to have friends no matter what the sex, just don't like the pushing for something else.
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Wow! I would never do that with a married man!
 
If both agreeable join the swinging scene,no guilt involved, just a physical experience.
 
john19485 said:
I was at the coffee shop last year a woman set beside me and we talked she put her hands between my legs and grabbed me.


John I'd like the address of that coffee shop........shhhh let's keep my asking just between us.
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Her husband said she was depressed , she's on meds acting a lot better now, I am friends with her and her husband , I want to remain friends( Her husband is military retired, I would never touch her)
IKE said:
john19485 said:
I was at the coffee shop last year a woman set beside me and we talked she put her hands between my legs and grabbed me.


John I'd like the address of that coffee shop........shhhh let's keep my asking just between us.
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AZ Jim said:
Thankfully that ship has sailed for me and I am not interested in a repeat performance. I am a harmless old man now.
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Jim,

Look on the bright side!!! :playful:

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"...So, on this subject of extramarital sex do you feel it is ever right?..."

Nope. A sin is a sin is a sin. No excuses for committing it has validity. Or has God's Word changed that it is not? Good thing Christ Jesus loves us so much that He allowed Himself to take on our sins and let Himself be put to death for them so that we need not.
 
Extra marital affairs is committing adultery, isn't it? Adultery is a sin from what God's Word (Jesus) teaches in the Christian Bible. No disrespect taken, Keesha. :) If we disagree, no problem.
 
Elsie said:
Extra marital affairs is committing adultery, isn't it? Adultery is a sin from what God's Word (Jesus) teaches in the Christian Bible. No disrespect taken, Keesha. :) If we disagree, no problem.
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Its my understanding that marital affairs are between consenting adults and if they both agree to being monogamous, then inviting someone else into the picture is breaking that trust.
In the eyes of the law and most religions, it is considered adultery, so yes, I suppose we agree.
 
How do I feel about it? Fine with me. I follow that old saying, 'Variety is the spice of life."

Just kidding. I NEVER cheated on my wife. Never had to; she kept me well satisfied.

2nd marriages for both of us. We traded a few things we knew from the other marriage.
 
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I think it's in poor taste, but I don't judge others for what they do. (But if my husband were to cheat, he'd be looking for another place to live. :D)
 
=Elsie;815781]Extra marital affairs is committing adultery, isn't it? Adultery is a sin from what God's Word (Jesus) teaches in the Christian Bible. No disrespect taken, Keesha. :) If we disagree, no problem.
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My objection to such behavior has nothing to do with religion; the cheater is breaking his/her word. It's an ethical matter - a breaking of trust.
 
Single people having sex with each other without benifit of marriage. I approve completely.

There are many things I do not understand and cheating is one of them. My father was what one might call a serial cheater. Not only did he cheat on my mom; but he did so with women in our neighborhood. Women who owned/worked in stores where we shopped. Why he felt it necessary to humilate my mother I will never know.

One of my earilest memories was the Halloween when I was 3. My sister and I were not allowed to trick or treat; but we were allowed to give out candy at our door. One of the neighborhhod boys came and announced that our father was kissing the “lady” in the donut shop.

He also cheated on his second wife. A woman he married long after my parents divorced.

For me cheating is a relationship ender. If you cheat on me I dump you faster than yesterdays fish. There is no forgiveness. I do not want to here your excuses. There is no excuse for that type of betrayal.


I have always been a one man woman: married to or dating one single man and sleeping only with him.

I do have a funny cheating story I like to think of as what goes around comes around.

Claire single* and Joe married, we all worked in the same office. They began an affair. Everyone knew Joe was unhappily married and it was only a matter of time before he divorced. He divorces but ends it with Claire since now that he has his freedom he does not want to get tied down. Three years later Joe and Claire marry. Three years after that Joe is cheating on Claire with yet another co-worker, Jeanne. They divorce and Joe marries Jeanne.

Claire was a perennial “other woman” she could never even manage to even date a single man. Claire got what she deserved.
 
That must have been tough having a father like that as a child.
It seems that those hardships are what really create our uniqueness and often the ones who have been through the most, turn out to be true diamonds in the rough.

I’m not into sharing either; no excuses.
He’d be instantly kicked to the curb, no questions asked.
 

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