A Question for AI on women and restrooms

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George1959

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Please Paco or all of you who use AI for questions, ask this: "Why do women use restrooms always in company of other women?" I am serious.
 

Not sure if the is the answer you are looking for but this is what I got from Copilot.

The practice of women using restrooms together has several reasons. One primary factor is social bonding. Psychologist Rosalind Wiseman suggests that women view bathroom breaks as an opportunity to strengthen friendships and engage in private conversations away from prying eyes and ears in public spaces. It serves as a sanctuary for intimate discussions and sharing secrets1. Additionally, safety concerns and the desire for companionable moments can lead women to visit public toilets in pairs or groups2. So, while it might seem unusual, there are practical and social reasons behind this phenomenon! 😊

Please not that Copilot added the :) , not me.
 

SeaBreeze said:
Insecurity, fear?
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Not at all. But I've asked so many women (friends and colleagues), including my wife, this question that I got tons of answers. I need a comprehensive scientific answer this time. Of course any woman here can answer this question also, but in this special case I prefer the answers that are generated by AI.
 
When I use the restroom, I don’t bring company. When I was younger if we went out drinking and dancing and needed to use the restroom, I’d ask someone to go with me so I wasn’t hit on as much. Usually all the women in our group would go. We’d gossip about all the cute guys and freshen up our make up etc.,…There’s power in numbers.
 
Pi.ai

There are a variety of reasons why women often go to restrooms in groups or pairs. Some possible explanations include:
  1. Safety: Using a public restroom can be intimidating, especially for women. Going together can provide a sense of safety and security.
  2. Socializing: Visiting the restroom can be an opportunity for women to chat, catch up, and spend time together. It can also be an excuse to step away from a group setting for a few minutes to have a private conversation.
  3. Assistance: Women may accompany each other to provide help with clothing, makeup, or other personal matters.
  4. Comfort: Some people may feel more comfortable having someone else there while using a public restroom, whether for physical assistance or emotional support.
  5. Practicality: If a group of women is together in a public place, it can simply make sense for them to go to the restroom at the same time rather than making multiple individual trips.
It's important to note that these are general observations, and not every woman follows this pattern or has the same reasons for doing so.
 
Or we could ask a very safe place. Duck, duck, go. We all know how AI can hallucinate ( as if humans don't ). Or let's ask 3 billion women and parse their answers, that shouldn't take too long. What is the safest and best way to get an answer to this very important question?

Please an answer?

Duck Duck Go.

Why Do Girls Go to the Bathroom Together? Unmasking the Psychology Behind This Common Phenomenon​

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Girls going to the bathroom together has long been a topic of curiosity and fascination. You might have witnessed this peculiar behavior in various settings – from a girls’ night out to a high school dance or even in the workplace. It is a phenomenon that has sparked countless debates and theories. So, why do girls go to the bathroom together? Is there a psychological reason behind this behavior? Let’s dive deep into the world of female camaraderie and explore the intriguing reasons behind this seemingly mysterious tradition.

Why do girls go to the bathroom together?​

The act of girls going to the bathroom together can be attributed to a myriad of reasons, each stemming from social, safety, and psychological factors.

1. Social Bonding​

One of the primary reasons for this behavior is social bonding. Psychologist Rosalind Wiseman suggests that girls use bathroom breaks as an opportunity to strengthen friendships and engage in private conversations away from the prying eyes and ears in public spaces. It serves as a sanctuary for intimate discussions and the sharing of secrets.
In a study conducted by Dr. Barrie Gunter and Amy Furnham, it was found that females often prefer private exchanges while using the bathroom as it provides a relaxed and safe environment. This allows them to connect emotionally and share their experiences without interruption or judgment.

2. Safety in Numbers​

Another important reason behind this behavior is safety. Many girls feel more secure when accompanied by their friends, especially in public places like nightclubs, busy events, or unfamiliar surroundings.
Psychologist Susan Hughes emphasizes that women tend to face safety concerns more frequently than men. When women go to the bathroom together, they create a support system, ensuring that they are not alone and vulnerable to potential threats.

3. Empathy and Support​

Girls going to the bathroom together also stems from a sense of empathy and support. This behavior allows women to offer assistance to each other, both physically and emotionally.
Medical doctor and psychologist Dr. Cara Barker explains that women often help each other with tasks such as fixing clothing, providing menstrual products, or simply offering a listening ear. By going to the bathroom together, they create a network of support that enables them to address any urgent needs or provide comfort in times of distress.

4. Maintaining Appearances​

For many women, going to the bathroom together is not only about the social aspect but also about maintaining their appearance.
According to psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz, women often use the bathroom as a space for touch-ups, fixing hair and makeup, or adjusting their clothing. Being accompanied by friends allows them to seek reassurance about their appearance and make sure they look their best before returning to the public eye.

5. Collective Validation​

Girls going to the bathroom together can also be linked to the desire for collective validation. In a society that often places an emphasis on physical appearance and comparison, women may seek reassurance from their peers.
Psychiatrist Dr. Abbigail Tumpey suggests that women may feel more confident in their choices and appearance when they receive positive feedback from their friends. By going to the bathroom together, they can seek validation and opinions on their outfits, hair, or overall appearance.

Is there a psychological reason for girls going to the bathroom together?​

Absolutely! The behavior of girls going to the bathroom together can be better understood through various psychological frameworks.

1. Evolutionary Psychology​

Evolutionary psychologists argue that throughout history, females have relied on social bonds and alliances to ensure their survival. This instinctual behavior is deeply ingrained within human nature.
Psychologist Daniel Kruger explains that when women go to the bathroom together, they engage in activities that promote group cohesion, trust, and cooperation. This behavior may have evolved as a way to foster supportive relationships among females and strengthen their overall social network.

2. Social Identity Theory​

Social identity theory, proposed by psychologist Henri Tajfel, suggests that individuals seek to align themselves with a particular social group to enhance their self-esteem. Through this lens, girls going to the bathroom together can be seen as a means to reinforce their social identity as women.
Psychologist Catherine Haslam explains that bathroom breaks serve as a space to interact with other women and reaffirm shared experiences, creating a sense of belonging and connection. By engaging in this behavior, women find comfort in their commonalities and collective identity as females.

3. Group Decision-Making​

When women go to the bathroom together, they often engage in decision-making processes as a group.
Psychologist and organizational behavior expert Dr. Saliha Afridi suggests that women frequently seek opinions or advice from their friends before making important choices, such as accepting a date or responding to a text message. By involving others in the decision-making process, they gather different perspectives and increase the chances of making an informed choice.

What does it mean when girls go to the bathroom together?​

While the act of girls going to the bathroom together may seem trivial to some, it holds significant meaning within female social dynamics.
According to Dr. Marisa Cohen, Assistant Professor of Psychology, this behavior signifies trust, closeness, and intimacy between female friends. When women choose to take bathroom breaks as a group, they are reaffirming their bond and creating a sense of solidarity.
Furthermore, Dr. Dunn, a professor of psychology, suggests that the act of going to the bathroom together can also be seen as a form of nonverbal communication. It symbolizes a shared understanding and unspoken agreement that provides comfort and security to women in unfamiliar or potentially uncomfortable situations.
In conclusion, the act of girls going to the bathroom together is a multifaceted phenomenon driven by social bonding, safety, empathy, maintenance of appearance, and collective validation. Understanding the psychology behind this behavior allows us to appreciate the depth of female friendships and the role they play in navigating daily life.

References:​

Gunter, B., & Furnham, A. (1994). Public bathroom behavior: Sex differences and similarities. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 78(2), 224.
Hughes, S. M., Morrison, K., & Asada, K. J. (2005). What’s new about new girls? Psychological characteristics of women heading back to school. Sex Roles, 53(7), 487-494.
Wiseman, R. (2002). Queen Bees and Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boyfriends, and the New Realities of Girl World. Three Rivers Press.
Barker, C. L. (2007). Own your game: How a narcissistic text message can make you build muscle and burn fat. Authors Unlimited.
Saltz, G. (2008). Anatomy of a secret. Psychology Today.
Tumpey, A. (2014). When Friendships Go Sour: Why Adolescent Girls and Boys Drop Friends. Psychology Today.
Kruger, D. J. (2017). The social flows among genes, environments, and behaviors: The delay of gratification. Frontiers in Psychology, 8, 1073.
Tajfel, H., & Turner, J. C. (1979). An integrative theory of intergroup conflict. The social psychology of intergroup relations, 33-47.
Haslam, C. (2001). Psychology in Organizations: The Social Identity Approach. Sage Publications Ltd.
Afridi, S. (2018). The surprising ways women’s self-esteem influences their choices. Psychology Today.
Cohen, M. J. (2020). Interview on the psychology of going to the bathroom together.
Dunn, E. W., Hunt, A. N.,& Sinclair, S. (2021). Anticipating action together. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 30(2), 191-197.

Why Do Girls Go to the Bathroom Together? Unmasking the Psychology Behind This Common Phenomenon - Christophe Garon
 
While we're on the subject, when you go into a men's, there a row of urinals, and three stalls. From what I've seen of Ladies' restrooms, is sofas, chairs, and end tables with lamps, and a separate stall room. Why do women need a reception room????????
 
Nathan said:
Here's a fun question: "why do men never talk to one another in a public restroom?" :p
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Copilot

why do men never talk to one another in a public restroom?"


Copilot
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Ah, the unwritten rules of men’s restroom etiquette! While it’s not a universal truth, there are a few reasons why men often avoid conversation in public restrooms:
  1. Privacy and Personal Space:
    • Restrooms are considered private spaces. Men typically prefer to focus on their business without unnecessary interaction.
    • Talking might disrupt this personal bubble, especially during sensitive moments.
  2. Social Norms and Gender Roles:
    • Traditional gender norms discourage men from engaging in casual conversations in restrooms.
    • The expectation is to maintain a quiet, efficient environment.
  3. Avoiding Awkwardness:
    • Striking up a conversation with a stranger in a restroom can be awkward.
    • Men often choose silence to avoid potential discomfort.
  4. Hygiene and Efficiency:
    • Restrooms are functional spaces. Men prioritize hygiene and efficiency over socializing.
    • Quick in, quick out—no time for chitchat!
Remember, these norms vary, and some men might break the silence. But overall, the restroom remains a sanctuary of quietude for many. 🚽🤫 1 2 3
 
fuzzybuddy said:
While we're on the subject, when you go into a men's, there a row of urinals, and three stalls. From what I've seen of Ladies' restrooms, is sofas, chairs, and end tables with lamps, and a separate stall room. Why do women need a reception room????????
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Never seen that in any women's restrooms I have ever been in.

Only excepetion being parenting rooms, they might have a sofa and low tables - but they are for any gender parents
 
fuzzybuddy said:
While we're on the subject, when you go into a men's, there a row of urinals, and three stalls. From what I've seen of Ladies' restrooms, is sofas, chairs, and end tables with lamps, and a separate stall room. Why do women need a reception room????????
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Oh, when I'd go downtown with my Grandma in the olden days, the big department stores always had "ladies' lounges" that had an antechamber with couches, comfy chairs and mirrors. Shopping was hard work, y'know, and it was a big help to be able to sit down and rest your feet before forging back into the fray of white sales and Thursday discount days. Besides, sometimes you'd bump into friends or ladies you recognized from other days and it was a chance to sit and catch up on things.
 
Lara said:
AI answers leave me cold :oops:
Do we really want to put our
brains in a jar on the shelf?
I get that it's new and interesting.
I'm just resisting...that's all

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I appreciate your perspective! The rapid advancements in artificial intelligence (AI) indeed raise thought-provoking questions.

it lacks the depth of human creativity. Our brains weave emotions, experiences, and cultural context into our creations.

The putting our brains in jars is ethically and technically challenging. :)

It’s natural to resist change, especially when it involves our fundamental nature. As we explore AI, we must proceed thoughtfully, considering both benefits and risks.

There have been several "new" and "interesting" discoveries that we were skeptical of also...


Vaccinations: The concept of injecting a weakened form of a disease to prevent future infection was met with skepticism and fear in the 18th century. Now, vaccinations are one of the greatest public health achievements, saving countless lives.

Anesthesia: The idea of numbing someone for surgery seemed barbaric at first. In the 19th century, opponents argued it was unnatural and even immoral. Now, anesthesia is essential for safe and painless surgeries.

Electricity: When Benjamin Franklin first harnessed electricity, many people were afraid of it. They didn't understand it and worried about the potential dangers. Now, electricity is an invisible force powering our entire world.

The Internet: The early days of the internet were met with concerns about isolation, addiction, and the spread of misinformation. Now, the internet is an essential tool for communication, information, and commerce.
 

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