Am I crazy for turning down a chance to go out with a lady?

Hawk said:
down a chance to go out with a lady? She asked me out for ice cream thru another forum, said she thought I was a nice guy!!! But of course I have not
showered in two days so how nice am I ?? Plus, I honestly cannot walk well
any longer, and gave that as an excuse.....or am I just scared to death at this
age!Z???!??o_O
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you are nervous, try to work up the nerve and energy to go :)
 
Hawk said:
down a chance to go out with a lady? She asked me out for ice cream thru another forum, said she thought I was a nice guy!!! But of course I have not
showered in two days so how nice am I ?? Plus, I honestly cannot walk well
any longer, and gave that as an excuse.....or am I just scared to death at this
age!Z???!??o_O
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If she is around your age, I would just do it. It's only ice cream, could be coffee somewhere too. If she's much younger than you, I would be suspicious and decline the invitation. She may want a Sugar Daddy.

I recommend you take a shower, put on a clean shirt and pants and go to meet her if she's also a senior. Many seniors have trouble walking and use canes or walkers. As Wheaten Lover already suggested, best not to take her anywhere in your car, or go anywhere with her in her car. Also meet in a public place and go your separate ways when the visit is over. I agree you're a nice guy, and I would like you to have a nice visit, but not get into any weird situations. Be aware, but try and relax and enjoy the meeting. Good luck!
 
Another bit of advice, you can take or leave Hawk. It's best not to get too close at first, don't give too much personal information, etc. That way, if you find you don't care for her at all face to face, or maybe she's not such a nice gal......it will be much easier to distance yourself from her afterwards. If you really click with her, then of course you can share some personal feelings and info if appropriate. Hope all goes well. :)
 
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Hawk said:
down a chance to go out with a lady? She asked me out for ice cream thru another forum, said she thought I was a nice guy!!! But of course I have not
showered in two days so how nice am I ?? Plus, I honestly cannot walk well
any longer, and gave that as an excuse.....or am I just scared to death at this
age!Z???!??o_O
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Ic You're scared.
If she is near me ... I would be glad to buy her an ice cream!
It's not a marriage - just a friendship.

So long as a woman doesn't want to come into my residence, going out and having a dinner or going to a movie is great!
 
It's just ice cream!

It's not a resort dinner that's going to cost an arm and a leg.

If the cost of an ice cream is a big deal I'll send you 10 bucks!

Just go relax and enjoy the moment and don't read anything into it it's just an ice cream
it's not a marriage proposal.
 
You've gotta'm asking you to go out and for valentine's Valentine's Day I couldn't find anyone to go out and I was offering to buy a high end dinner at a top notch restaurant in the area.

Do you have a special wink or something?

I would like to know what you've got that I need to get!

In my opinion I would say you are a lucky old pup.
 

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