Are All Men Looky-Loos?

Say what you will, but i assure you that men with money do much better with women than men without money.
The truth of this statement is as obvious as the nose on your face.
There are usually additional factors to men with money and without money. Usually men with money, not all men with money but more than a few offer greater benefits and sustainability that poor men cannot provide. Not all men, but a few refuse to work and are irresponsible and detrimental to the family wellbeing and structure. Poor character in men does not have a financial status.
 
Women check out men, just as much as men check out women. It has always been that way :sneaky:
To clarify men and women check out what attracts them. It's always been that way....hmm does that include animals as well? Not zoophilia, no no animals attracted to other animals? How many times have seen animal relationships that do not follow normal companionship groupings. Like a bird and a cat or wildlife adopting animals that are not theirs to raise but there you have it. I wonder if fish nurture other fish? Fish are not land animals and is hard to know what goes on in a fishy brain.
 
You guys have no idea how awful it is to have a conversation with a man who is staring at your breasts. It was a horrible feeling, embarrassing and disgusting.
When talking with a woman I usually am looking at her face.

One exception I still clearly remember. It was in Italy, staying in a small beachfront hotel in Lido di Jesolo. I was sitting on one of the hotel's beach chairs and this young woman came up to me, topless, and started talking. Had a real hard time looking her in the eye, when I finally did I realized she was the hotel girl who had been serving us meals. Nice lady, but I have to admit to a moment (maybe longer...) of staring at her chest...
 
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You guys have no idea how awful it is to have a conversation with a man who is staring at your breasts. It was a horrible feeling, embarrassing and disgusting.
Maybe you don't do it , but many women openly display cleavage.
I'm not what is called a "breast man", but I do notice, in passing, how many women dress to deliberately show off cleavage.

I have no idea how many women complain about men looking at them, BUT women could easily put a stop to this by NOT dressing in a 'sexy' way. Think about it. When out and about in the world, notice how many women wear skin tight pants, such as "Yoga Pants. How many wear ultra low cut blouses ? How many women have had breast implants ? How many don't wear a bra, so that nipples clearly show ?

On and on it goes. The list of things women do to get noticed is literally endless.
 
There are usually additional factors to men with money and without money. Usually men with money, not all men with money but more than a few offer greater benefits and sustainability that poor men cannot provide. Not all men, but a few refuse to work and are irresponsible and detrimental to the family wellbeing and structure. Poor character in men does not have a financial status.
Please name a few benefits and/or sustainability that men with money offer. Then take away the money and see if those benefits remain.
 
You guys have no idea how awful it is to have a conversation with a man who is staring at your breasts. It was a horrible feeling, embarrassing and disgusting.
If there's too much on display it will catch my eye, but that's all. Sometimes displaying the charms can be deliberate, there's no need to dress like a nun but care should be given to what is appropriate.
Here's someone who could learn such a lesson. It's almost impossible for your eye not to see the regal staff.

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When I was a single mom, I dreaded conversations with my landlord because he kept casting furtive glances at my breasts. It was really uncomfortable when he was in my personal living space!
There are some disgusting people who don't give a hoot how you feel, and they will do awful things to you. I do believe we are all guilty of this at some point in our spotless lives. :) When our primal instincts take over we become far less than pleasant.
 
Please name a few benefits and/or sustainability that men with money offer. Then take away the money and see if those benefits remain.
Men with money are not necessarily a good husband or family man, for that is for him to determine. A good relationship with spouse or partner requires honesty and a willingness to support each other come thick or thin. It takes a lot to put up with me and my wife is talented that way. I am skeptical of most people and their circumstances. I moved away from a human service provider, caring for addicts and mental health consumers. Burned out is a term used to describe an over-abundance of time and effort toward one or many people for the enhancement of other peoples lives.

I am skeptical of people having waited on needy people as a career I am burned out and have no desire to serve people again
 
There are some disgusting people who don't give a hoot how you feel, and they will do awful things to you. I do believe we are all guilty of this at some point in our spotless lives. :) When our primal instincts take over we become far less than pleasant.
My life is hardly spotless, lol! 😇

Civilized people are able to control their impulses. That includes staring at anyone's body parts. You're right, some people don't give a hoot because all they're interested in is their own pleasure. Some people stare because they want to make you uncomfortable. They use it to intimidate you. It's disgusting, low-life behavior.

Men are also known to show off their bodies in BIG ways. Especially the Italian fashionistas. OMG, you should see what some of these men wear on the streets, and it's not just the Italians. You'd have to be stone-cold dead not to look at them! They want you to L:oops::oops:K at them. I have no doubt that even men couldn't help but stare, lol! I'd love to post some photos, but they'd get deleted. 😁

Bella ✌️
 
I notice that certain people keep making these comments about women only being interested in men for potential financial gain. I can only speak for myself, but when I met my current husband, we were both over 50. He had been working in the scientific field, mostly lab work. After a bad experience he lost confidence, and at the time we met, he was delivering pizza for a living. I fell in love with him not because he had a high income, but because I was genuinely attracted to him and not to what he could buy for me.

I encouraged him to dust off his dreams and try again. He is now making a much better salary, and feels content in his work, in a lab. I could never feel attraction to a man based upon his material assets; never have and never will. I was pretty capable of supporting myself, having worked in health care, so I wasn't looking to be "taken care of."

Perhaps there are women out there who are gold diggers; and personally, I do believe that a man's potential to be a good provider is definitely a plus,especially if you expect to start a family with him. But that would not be the sole reason for me to be attracted to someone!
 
I notice that certain people keep making these comments about women only being interested in men for potential financial gain. I can only speak for myself, but when I met my current husband, we were both over 50. He had been working in the scientific field, mostly lab work. After a bad experience he lost confidence, and at the time we met, he was delivering pizza for a living. I fell in love with him not because he had a high income, but because I was genuinely attracted to him and not to what he could buy for me.

I encouraged him to dust off his dreams and try again. He is now making a much better salary, and feels content in his work, in a lab. I could never feel attraction to a man based upon his material assets; never have and never will. I was pretty capable of supporting myself, having worked in health care, so I wasn't looking to be "taken care of."

Perhaps there are women out there who are gold diggers; and personally, I do believe that a man's potential to be a good provider is definitely a plus,especially if you expect to start a family with him. But that would not be the sole reason for me to be attracted to someone!

PERHAPS there are gold diggers out there ? Is there any doubt what-so-ever ?
 
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