I'm not a "neatnic", but, since I'm the retired one between us, I do the laundry, vacuuming, etc. while my wife is at work. I do let my wife clean the two bathrooms b/c I have a hard time smelling the cleaning stuff she uses. Bathroom doors get shut and fan goes on! And, once she starts cleaning, she doesn't stop! She cleans the areas that I don't get to during the week. But, generally, our apartment does have that "lived in" look. Not real messy, but not really clean/organized either. I'm much more of an organized person that my wife is though.
Now, when my wife knows someone is stopping by our apartment for a visit.... boy, does this lady go at it! The "White Tornado" in action (LOL).
Even though our boat is a 1992, just before boating season starts, she is clean/scrubbing the interior trying to make it look like a 2014 boat.
My wife's brother is definitely a "neatnic"! The inside of his car is so clean, a person could eat off of the floors! His studio apt. is the same way........super clean!