Being accused of something you didn't do

Yes, and I get irritated about it, until I realize that I did do it. This happen to anyone?

Another thing is to get in trouble doing something that you didn't know you weren't supposed to. It's both embarrassing and maddening at the same time. And the way it turned out I was actually glad about it. So, there! :cool:
 

My ex wife was insanely jealous. She accused me of having affairs all the time. If she called me at work and the secretary answered because I was in the mens room taking a dump she would accuse me of having an affair with her. One time my boss kept me 15 minutes late. When I got home she accused me of meeting some woman. It was horrible. Finally she filed for divorce because she was seeing some dude on the side and wanted to be with him. I had a few clues of how jealous she was before we got married but I was young and stupid and went ahead anyway. My advice to anybody who is in a relationship, if that person shows any signs of having a jealousy problem do yourself a favor and don't walk away. RUN!
 
Trade said:
One time my boss kept me 15 minutes late. When I got home she accused me of meeting some woman. It was horrible. Finally she filed for divorce because she was seeing some dude on the side and wanted to be with him.
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It's been my experience that often when a person starts accusing someone of something it's because they are the one guilty of the behavior.
 

I know this is a resurrected old thread, but I have as well. I was accused of stealing an envelope of cash from the family of a friend who had passed away. Money was given as donations to family, and it came up missing. It was never found, and I learned that for various reasons, I was the first suspect. Why? Because at the time I was going through serious financial issues, including a spending and gambling addiction. Both of which I have long since over come. It was later "decided" that maybe the money was lost while packing up the persons' home for sale. She was a bit of a hoarder, and had a lot of things. Sad thing was, a couple family members still think I had something to do with it, though they had no proof except for my past issues.
 
hollydolly said:
How about you..ever been accused of something you didn't do..and what were the consequences?
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Shalimar said:
It makes me postal. The Welsh witch comes out in me. I get all cold and quiet, start hissing out words like a cat. Not pretty.
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:yes: She does! :hide:

But I’m the exact same way. It’s one thing for someone to make a mistake but when someone makes stuff up to deliberately set you up then it takes it to a whole new level.

Oddly enough not that long ago someone I met online accused me of doing stuff I didn’t do but what creeped me out the most were the implications made to me. They were truly sick and perverse. I was shocked & stunned. It was truly disgusting and hurt so much.

Apparently this person thought I was an old ‘real friend/enemy ‘ from the past when I’d never seen or met him/her in my life.
It was haunting
 
Keesha said:
:yes: She does! :hide:

But I’m the exact same way. It’s one thing for someone to make a mistake but when someone makes stuff up to deliberately set you up then it takes it to a whole new level.

Oddly enough not that long ago someone I met online accused me of doing stuff I didn’t do but what creeped me out the most were the implications made to me. They were truly sick and perverse. I was shocked & stunned. It was truly disgusting and hurt so much.

Apparently this person thought I was an old ‘real friend/enemy ‘ from the past when I’d never seen or met him/her in my life.
It was haunting
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How aweful.
 
dkay said:
It's been my experience that often when a person starts accusing someone of something it's because they are the one guilty of the behavior.
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I agree. People who play head games witb others and learn to get anyway with it , assume we are ALL playing the same games. I think it’s teferring to as ‘projecting’ your own feelings towards another.
 
Marie5656 said:
I know this is a resurrected old thread, but I have as well. I was accused of stealing an envelope of cash from the family of a friend who had passed away. Money was given as donations to family, and it came up missing. It was never found, and I learned that for various reasons, I was the first suspect. Why? Because at the time I was going through serious financial issues, including a spending and gambling addiction. Both of which I have long since over come. It was later "decided" that maybe the money was lost while packing up the persons' home for sale. She was a bit of a hoarder, and had a lot of things. Sad thing was, a couple family members still think I had something to do with it, though they had no proof except for my past issues.
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That's awful Marie, but I can totally understand the hurt you feel, I would be absolutely infuriated by the injustice if it was me!!!
 

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