As usual, yesterday was a stellar day
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I have been trying to get my husband to go back to the doctor since he finished his meds as he is still coughing. He has refused, so yet another point of contention between us and I am trying to end the points of contention. So yesterday on the way to my doctor, he is coughing up a lung, again
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When we get to my doctors office, I tell him to take the car, go over to the instant care, and seea doctor before your lung is sitting outside your body. Besides there are no magazines to read due to Covid, the tv is off to to Covid, my doctor is running behind due to overbooking as usual, and we might as well kill two birds with one stone.
He agrees.
I go see my doctor, won’t see him again.
. Husband goes to instant care doctor. When we are in the car I ask husband, who is still coughing up a lung, what the doc said. Husband says “I looked at your old medical records. You were really sick, you could have died. And, you still have pneumonia.” (I am right again, just saying. I’ve taken care of him again even though he’s been horrific to me, just saying.)
The doctor gives him different medication and tells him to come back in two weeks to make sure the pneumonia is gone. Remember, we are in the car when we are talking and I turn to him and say “why is it I keep saving your life, making sure you are ok and you won’t even call the paramedics for me.”
And he says “because I care less for you than I did the dog. You are right. I did not call the paramedics-and would not call them no matter how sick you got and I would have let you lie there till you died and not called the paramedics”.
Alrighty then.
I have a plan. I am sticking to it. But I am mulling over my options. And I am firing my ortho surgeon who I’ve seen for 20 plus years and I am firing my primary care doctor who just told me I have to put up with my jerk of a husband and I am on the way to being done with putting up with my jerk of my husband.
I have a freaking plan!!!
