..but if she goes first Ike ?.. then what ?I don't much care how death comes as long as it's quick.....here one minute and gone the next.
Why ?....because I don't want to put mama through watching me die a slow drawn out death.
That would be lovely but leave it to hospitals and doctors to ruin the experience. Exit meds might be a better way if they would just legalize them.I agree with both @Paco Dennis and @ Aunt bea ...... Assisted suicide if it is legal here by then. If I feel it coming on .... I might even travel to a state where it is.
You're right, Chic. Assisted suicide is legal here in Hawaii but you have to jump so many hoops that you wish you could die already.That would be lovely but leave it to hospitals and doctors to ruin the experience. Exit meds might be a better way if they would just legalize them.
This isn''t meant to be weird or creepy in any way but when you envisage death, dying, your final illness/moments, how do you see yourself dying? Will you fade away bit by bit over a period of years? Will you be dying peacefully in a hospital with family all around you? Will you die hard and fast? The victim of an accident or adventure? Will you live to be very old and revered by those who know you after a lifetime of service to your community? I think we have some idea of our personalities and inclinations. So we will know if we are fighters or not.
I believe I will either die hard and very slow. By inches if life gets harder and my spirit gives it up. So I will die of despair or I will go down swinging and die hard and fast in a hurricane, an avalanche, or (my favorite) a yachting accident.
How do you see it for yourself? Will you be sick for years or die suddenly.
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@hollydollyTalking of death leads me into the possibility of there being a ''Heaven''.
I think most of us have heard stories from people who have 'died and gone to heaven''... and again most dismiss their stories as the effect of medication or a an attack on the Brain while the person is losing or lost consciousness..
Today a Harvard Qualified Brain Surgeon.. has written his own experience of ''going to heaven''.. when he 'died''. while suffering a rare form of meningitis which was a certain killer..
This is very worth reading.. if you can't read it due to a paywall.. and wish to..let me know and I'll copy the text and PM you with it...or paste it in a new thread..
What heaven's really like - by brain surgeon who went there
Here's a little blurb about the author...Talking of death leads me into the possibility of there being a ''Heaven''.
I think most of us have heard stories from people who have 'died and gone to heaven''... and again most dismiss their stories as the effect of medication or a an attack on the Brain while the person is losing or lost consciousness..
Today a Harvard Qualified Brain Surgeon.. has written his own experience of ''going to heaven''.. when he 'died''. while suffering a rare form of meningitis which was a certain killer..
This is very worth reading.. if you can't read it due to a paywall.. and wish to..let me know and I'll copy the text and PM you with it...or paste it in a new thread..
What heaven's really like - by brain surgeon who went there
Too difficult for me even to think about the possibility of her passing before me...but if she goes first Ike ?.. then what ?
except as a Brain surgeon, he was told by his colleagues that while he was in his Coma, there was no Brain activity... essentially he was dead..Here's a little blurb about the author...
While practicing medicine in Lynchburg at the Lynchburg General Hospital, Alexander was reprimanded by the Virginia Board of Medicine for performing surgery incorrectly. In 2007, twice within a month, he operated on the wrong segment of patients’ spinal column. In one of the cases, Alexander did not initially reveal his mistake as he believed the surgery had been beneficial; even though it wasn't the intended operation. He was sued by the patient for damages totalling $3 million in August 2008. The case was dismissed by the plaintiff in 2009 without comment from an attorney. Due to these mistakes, Alexander temporarily lost his privileges at the hospital and was forced to pay a $3,500 fine to the Virginia Board of Medicine.
That said, what Alexander calls "heaven" is just what happens when the brain malfunctions, much like seeing a light in the distance.
.. and the same when cruelty serves as wit.When you're dead - you don't know you're dead. Only others know. It's the same when you're stupid![]()
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Could you please paste the article in a new thread, Hols?![]()
that's the way my mum died... ( she'd overdosed on prescription pills).. but she went to bed and didn't wake upI will settle for the way both my mother and my sister went. Some years apart they both went to bed and didn't wake up.
we say this all the time.. even my mother used to say it, in fact she said it more than anyone else... and guess what?.. she was taken at 39.... years oldIt would seem the Lord takes the best of us early and quickly, leaving the rest of us turds to suffer it out for a long - long time. Lol
.. and the same when cruelty serves as wit.