Speaking of answering the phone, remember when it was fun? Who could it be? A friend or some boring person for your parents. Phone etiquette was very important.
When you called your friend and someone else answered you did not ask for your friend without telling the person who you were.
Hello, this is Mary, may I speak to Kathy? You had to identity yourself and I still believe this is the way it should be.
And horror of horrors -a child never in a million years dared to ask a caller "Who is this?" if the call was not for you! My mother went ballistic when I did that once- "You do not ask my caller for their identity- ever!" If the caller did not identify themselves, it's not up to a child to question an adult. IF I give you a signal, you ask-"May I ask who is calling" Then I'll decide how I'll proceed. Whew.
First it was telephone etiquette, now it's down to whether or not we'll even answer the phone whether it's a telemarketer or our own brother! LOL