I would absolutely do all that however , I’m not living nearby.an hr from my House and don’t drive.. that’s why I have to rely on them otherwise i would have done it!Take back your power. You sound like you are completely able and aware of the world around you. Whatever it is to get the house cleaned out, do it. Do't ask them. Find a place thatwill help you through the county or friends. When the house is ready to be sold, find a realtor and slap a sign on it. When it sells, take your proceeds and find a place to live on your own if that's what you want. The kids do not think you can do this but you can. I know you have doubts but as long as you have your mind you'll be ok.
It’s we. Difficult,since I have no other family close who can help.