Do you think there are still very specific gender roles?

Most experts agree that rigid, traditional gender roles should not exist as they can be limiting and harmful, perpetuating inequality and discrimination against individuals who do not conform to societal expectations; instead, a focus on gender equality and allowing people to choose their own roles based on their individual abilities and interests is considered more beneficial for society as a whole.
 

My husband is busy these last two weeks doing everthing I usually do because I seriously sprained my midfoot. He is sure as good as I am at all the things and never complains. I think a lot more men now days know how to cook clean and do laundry and shop. I’m rather enjoying reading books and having a good rest.
Your husband is a good man and a fish tank is a lovely surprise for any man .
 
No one can change their sex. It is written into every cell of the body and encoded in DNA. Surgery and hormones can alter appearance, but they cannot transform biological reality.
Agree Mammals can not only fish such as Clownfish and other few other fish .

Certain reptiles such as mourning geckos ,only females no males at all but you are correct as far as mammals .
 

And we have to acknowledge that men are handicapped by a total inability to grow and deliver human beings.

I think a lot of our gender roles evolved from those two 'handicaps." Women simply could not do the hard physical labor of ranching or farming and men who wanted children needed women. Women needed to be protected by men while they were heavily pregnant or caring for a newborn and men needed to have food prepared for them when they came in from the fields. Women literally needed to keep the home fires burning.

Gender differences aren't all bad. I definitely have a nesting instinct, love my house and wouldn't want anyone else to care for it. My husband on the other hand loves his car, while someone could drive off with mine right now and I'd wave at him.

Check out our '"show us how you looked in your prime " thread. It didn't take the men long to start showing us pictures of their cars. :D
''It didn't take the men long to start showing us pictures of their cars.''

lol yes we are a superficial void of any real substance bunch .

You see us for what we are yet kind enough to laugh it off .
 
I wouldn't trust anyone who couldn't eat a fried egg without using a knife. The first time we had breakfast in an English hotel, I thought the Brits must eat steak for breakfast. It sounded like a sword fight. No wonder you folks think Americans are loud, we're just trying to hear each other over the clatter you make.

Also, you wouldn't need to use your knife to push food onto your fork if you didn't hold it upside down.

As for tea, why would we want to make a big sloppy mess on the table, just to have a cup of liquid tin can?
So, if a Brit is given a spork, how is it held? Concave side up or concave side down?
 
My Cleaning Lady was here today,
she comes every other week.
I couldn't imagine a guy doing that,
nor would I hire one.



By the by:
There is only one bone in the human body that is gender specific.
Do you know what it is?
 
I don't judge others until or unless I've walked a mile in their shoes. If people are horribly uncomfortable with their biological sex, it's no skin off anybody else's nose for them to transition to what makes them happy.

It's far better for them and their families than committing suicide.

You might want to check out the documentary "Will and Harper" (available in the US on Netflix, don't know about France). It might open your mind and increase your compassion.

I had a female classmate I knew from about age ten through adulthood. Her life was a misery until her 40s when she transitioned from female to male. His happiness index went from around zero to magical heights. Sadly, he died a few years ago from natural causes having nothing to do with his transition.
I agree and I believe in live and let live .

Though I fought a lot of fights as a younger man they were out of necessity .

Btw I didn't win them which would explain what some might call brain damage but live and let live is best .
 
I gave birth in a military hospital in a foreign country.

Attending me were a male doctor (a native of that country) and a male nurse (U.S. Air Force).

The hospital nursery was mainly staffed by male nurses.

My dad was a medic in WWI. When he came back, he wanted to go to medical school but there was no money for it.

I asked him if he had considered becoming a nurse and he said at that time, male nurses could only care for male patients and the jobs were mainly in VA hospitals, insane asylums, prisons, etc. There were few nursing schools who would accept men. The pay for male nurses was low.
 
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Much has changed since I was a young women. Men couldn't become nurses and women couldn't become geologists. The bold pioneers who tried to cross the lines were given a very hard time.
A male nurse asked me if I'd like help putting on a menstrual pad (after I had a D&C). "SAY WHAT?! NO THANK YOU!" I said. lol
 
And too their are notable psychological differences between men and women. Females are holistic, whereas males think more logically with a narrower focus. Females offer better understanding towards feelings, and emphasize relationship building and on understanding intentions. Males display greater consistency than females, and have more of an affliction toward struggle and competitiveness. These are general differences and of course individuals vary widely from these norms.
 
And too their are notable psychological differences between men and women. Females are holistic, whereas males think more logically with a narrower focus. Females offer better understanding towards feelings, and emphasize relationship building and on understanding intentions. Males display greater consistency than females, and have more of an affliction toward struggle and competitiveness. These are general differences and of course individuals vary widely from these norms.
Women do have a 6th sense that we men do not have .

I wouldn't say reading minds per-se but it somewhat borders on it .
 
I was thinking how much things have changed for genders in their roles in all aspects of life since I was very young. I haven't researched any studies on that but maybe some have.
I think there have been changes since I was a young child. Many women were homemakers while the husbands went to work. Now, many women are working in various fields and sometimes earning more than their male counterparts.

These days many men are not so desperate to prove their 'manhood', and will happily help with shopping, cooking, housework, childcare, etc. Many women have no issue doing the heavy yard work, cleaning the gutters, servicing their vehicles and changing a tire when necessary.

I have worked in male dominated blue collar jobs all my adult life, equal pay, equal work. If I couldn't do the job, I would look elsewhere. If a woman cannot physically handle the task, there are usually ways to cope, like using a forklift, a pallet jack, a dolly, a crowbar, etc. This is not always a gender issue either, there are men who are too small, too weak, too out of shape, too obese to handle some physical challenges.

I respect women who jump in to help and aren't afraid of getting their hands dirty, as I do men who are not so close minded that they refuse to make dinner or do some food shopping.

In my opinion, we're all people, capable of doing most anything if we choose to and put our mind to it. I prefer it when there's mutual respect, and not one individual looking down on another.

The only things which would hinder both men and women are physical handicaps or old age.
 

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