Tish
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No, not really, but then again I am a curious creature so would want to know why.
Sure. Like most people, I would like to be appreciated by everyone. It also depends upon the person.
I have a neighbor who doesn't like me and lets me know it. Every time. If I run into him and try to say hello or make polite chit chat he doesn't even look me in the eye but mumbles something kind of surly. Next time I run into him I'm going to give him a dose of his own medicine. It's sort of a mean thing to do and I shouldn't but I must.
The devil is making me do it.
I haven't had that experience, but if I did, I would respect his reaction and wouldn't even try to say hello or chat with him. Not everybody wants to be friendly with everyone, I don't see why you're overreacting to this and don't just let it go. I don't seek to be appreciated by everyone, and I don't appreciate everyone. None of us were born on this earth to please everyone, and that's the way it should be, in my opinion. One reason I believe in divorce when couples don't get along, life is too short to be around someone who doesn't love you.....just move on.I have a neighbor who doesn't like me and lets me know it. Every time. If I run into him and try to say hello or make polite chit chat he doesn't even look me in the eye but mumbles something kind of surly. Next time I run into him I'm going to give him a dose of his own medicine. It's sort of a mean thing to do and I shouldn't but I must.
An idiot maybe not enough of an explanation(?).No, not really, but then again I am a curious creature so would want to know why.
If everyone thought life is so short no one should stay together in the hope one day love would return to their marriage, many romantic films and novels would lose their narrative and/or theme, (what would this do to those industries, have you thought about that aspect?).I haven't had that experience, but if I did, I would respect his reaction and wouldn't even try to say hello or chat with him.(break). I don't seek to be appreciated by everyone, and I don't appreciate everyone. None of us were born on this earth to please everyone, and that's the way it should be, in my opinion. One reason I believe in divorce when couples don't get along, life is too short to be around someone who doesn't love you.....just move on.
Did you join or avoid the "rat race" therefore?I was taught to whenever possible to avoid the human race.
You probably know that modern humans belong to the species Homo sapiens. ... Humans can move on their own and are placed in the animal kingdom. Further, humans belong to the animal phylum known as chordates because we have a backbone. The human animal has hair and milk glands, so we are placed in the class of mammals.^^^^ BINGO!
Right on!!!!!!!You probably know that modern humans belong to the species Homo sapiens. ... Humans can move on their own and are placed in the animal kingdom. Further, humans belong to the animal phylum known as chordates because we have a backbone. The human animal has hair and milk glands, so we are placed in the class of mammals.
I'm even jealous you thought of your post about jealousy before I did!!!!!!!!!!!!I think a lot of dislikes about people , are jealousy.....I lived in a houseful of jealous people !!
Jealousy is a terrible trait .......
In my very early years at secondary school, so when I was maybe twelve years old, a boy called Bradley told me he hated me, and this came as a bit of a shock to me, as I'd no idea why he said it and hadn't thought I'd upset him in any way, (like you I was naively going through life thinking I could please everyone too!).I think it’s human nature to want everyone to like you as their not doing so can adversely impact on your sense of self-worth. As you walk down life’s highway, however, you will invariably encounter people who will dislike you just for being you; people are tuned to different frequencies. If you try to make everyone happy, you’ll likely make yourself miserable in the process, and stand for nothing. When starting work and both idealistic and naive , I once remarked to a superior that I wished I could make everyone happy at the same time. He replied that when I learned how to do that, I should come back and teach him...