There's nothing wrong with being flirty
@Right Now. It usually signals you're interested in someone, but I think flirting and then backing off is confusing for the person you're flirting with. That's not meant as criticism, merely an observation. Whether it's online or in person, I hope, since you've changed your mind about dating, you get the opportunity to flirt with someone you'd actually
like to date.
I'm not flirty. I'm fun, friendly, and straight-forward, but I don't flirt. If I did, it would only be directed at a man I was clearly interested in dating because I don't want to attract unwanted advances. In my youth, I often wondered why guys would hit on me when I gave no indication of interest in them other than the fact that I was as friendly to them as I was to others in general. I thought some guys mistook friendliness for interest and read more into it than what was really there because of their own desires.
These days I don't have to worry about any of it, lol! Opportunities to meet people are all but non-existent. I still have a modicum of hope only because I'm not dead yet. Most guys are interested in being with younger women no matter their age, and I no longer fit that bill unless the guy is ancient. There's a razor-slim chance I might meet a man my own age who actually likes women who are my age. Who knows? Stranger things have happened, but I won't be holding my breath. I exhaled a long time ago.
Bella